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    Overreactingboy Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 20, 2009, 05:34 PM
    Do I need to give her space to let things die
    Since I been acting like a complete fool and being selfish and didn't realize it, these past couple of days I've been beaten myself up hard about what I said to my girlfriend about being a liar and a cheater and blaming her friends when they didn't have nothing to do with it. I left her messages explainning how I was sorry and that what I did was very inconsiderate and very selfish of me to do.I love this girl and she still loves me she hasn't broken up with me or anything and she's debating about doing it. But I think she believes me to a degree about how sorry I am. I tried texting her off and on during the day and I don't really get no response back. Is it that she's thinking or just need space to think. Please help
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    JoeCanada76 Posts: 6,669, Reputation: 1707
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    Apr 20, 2009, 06:22 PM

    Your controlling and obsessive.

    Stop texting her, stop calling her and leave her alone.

    She will respond when or if she is ever ready.
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    I wish Posts: 5,296, Reputation: 2030
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    Apr 21, 2009, 10:09 AM

    Give her space.

    Cut off contact.

    While you are giving space, learn patience, self-control and restraint.

    Wait and see what happens.
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    Romefalls19 Posts: 4,739, Reputation: 1130
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    Apr 23, 2009, 09:03 AM

    Wow... Mr. Rome sees a restraining order in your future lad. You need to calm down, you aren't her father so she doesn't have to answer to you. If she wants to go to clubs(other posts) and you don't like it, then leave. She made her choice, her life is more important than the one with you. Good choice in my eyes, you are manipulative, verbally abusive and a jerk. There is an old saying "My friends come first, that's the bottom line". I hope she breaks up with you, she deserves better and maybe you can find someone who won't disobey you and will do whatever you want her too.
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    Apr 24, 2009, 02:44 PM
    Impatience is also a selfish trait so while you are leaving her messages saying how sorry you are for being selfish while you continue to text her, you are just confirming to her how selfish and inconsiderate you really are. It's like trying to convince someone you'll never smoke again while you are lighting up a cigarette. Talk is cheap and if you are truly sorry for your behavior, you will demonstrate that with your actions and that would be to give her some distance.
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