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    Apr 22, 2009, 01:35 PM

    Since you are so enlightened, maybe you should study this web site for a definition
    IDENTIFYING A CULT
    Or
    Frontline Ministries - How to Identify a Cult
    Sorry to say, but In my opinion your description fits right into the classic cult mantra.
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    Apr 22, 2009, 01:39 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by cozyk View Post
    I'm afraid to hit the "disagree" button since I have been reprimanded for not using it in the correct way, so let me just say it here. I disagree.

    T.

    Glad to see you finally figured out that if you disagree with something said that it does not deserve a reddie, unless factually incorrect. Rather you simply state your opposition to a comment/comments by another poster:D
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    Apr 22, 2009, 01:52 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by 450donn View Post
    Since you are so enlightened, maybe you should study this web site for a definition
    IDENTIFYING A CULT
    Sorry to say, but your description fits right into the classic cult mantra.
    Yep! I don't blame you after years of being brainwashed by your religion its impossible to think that the true cult is really the religious group you follow.

    Cause when I read the definition of cult Christianity can definitely fall into this category of a cult. Really is a cult a bad thing? Or are you another victim of media propaganda that group cults from such a negative view point. My understanding of the world cult is more open than yours! Just like my views on spirituality are more open! Hmmm I sense a pattern here ohh yes its all about the church and their constant brainwashing of their followers. I really feel bad for you, being so limited and operating under the laws of the church and not really being able to express oneself fully. So sad:(.

    But there is a light in the midst of all this chaos as a speci we are now moving into the age of aquarius which is the age where people will begin to ask questions, and look past the church and its limited views to find answers. I am more than proud to say that I do belong to that movement and whatever name you have for it that's your business.

    One more thing the church has always tried to silence people that defy their laws by painting a bad picutre of them, making it look like if you don't follow the churche's laws you're a renegage. Think back hundreds of years ago where secret societies like the free masons and the luminates tried to find scientific reasons for our existence and the church branded them as outlaws.

    These acts by the church has been going on for so long cause they have gulable people that don't want to do the hard work to reach enlightenment, like working ont heir insides, from the soul within. Instead its more conveneint to go to church every Sunday ad listen to the pastor preach. To my that's complete nonesense and these so called christians are really taking the easy way out.
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    Apr 22, 2009, 01:58 PM

    What we are moving into, Lighterrr, are the final stages of the last days.
    When the Church leaves, those who wanted to be free from the influence of those brainwashed Christians will get their wish.

    They will enjoy the sensation for maybe a few days.

    The age of aquarius will not look so good after that.

    You don't believe that now. You will, trust me on this.
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    Apr 22, 2009, 02:04 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by galveston View Post
    What we are moving into, Lighterrr, are the final stages of the last days.
    When the Church leaves, those who wanted to be free from the influence of those brainwashed Christians will get their wish.

    They will enjoy the sensation for maybe a few days.

    The age of aquarius will not look so good after that.

    You don't believe that now. You will, trust me on this.
    Please elaborate I do want to hear more
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    Apr 22, 2009, 02:34 PM

    ere has been much confusion about cults and how to 'pickem'.

    I clicked on your cult link and this is what I discovered.

    Some have difficulty identifying a cult because it is not so easy to identify one that is not even religious. For this reason, over the years, different definitions of what actually is a cult have developed to make it easier when you know little about their beliefs.

    The different definitions:

    SECULAR DEFINITION
    CULT - From the Latin "cultis" which denotes all that is involved in worship, ritual, emotion, liturgy and attitude. This definition actually denotes what we call denominations and sects and would make all religious movements a cult.

    That's not me. Not part of a religious movement or denomination.

    CHRISTIAN DEFINITION

    CULT - Any group which deviates from Biblical, orthodox, historical Christianity. e.I. They deny the Deity of Christ; His physical resurrection; His personal and physical return to earth and salvation by FAITH alone.

    Not me. I deviate from the bible only because there is no way to know it is correct but I do not deny a diety because I believe He dwells in all of us at a certain level.

    This definition only covers those groups which are cults within the Christian religion. It does not cover cults within other world religions such as Islam and Hinduism. Nor does it cover Psychological, Commercial or Educational cults which do not recognize the Bible as a source of reality.

    UNIVERSAL DEFINITION

    CULT - Any group which has a pyramid type authoritarian leadership structure with all teaching and guidance coming from the person/persons at the top. The group will claim to be the only way to God; Nirvana; Paradise; Ultimate Reality; Full Potential, Way to Happiness etc, and will use thought reform or mind control techniques to gain control and keep their members. This definition covers cults within all majopr world religions, along with those cults which have no OBVIOUS religious base such as commercial, educational and psychological cults. Others may define these a little differently, but this is the simplest to work from. THE 'ORTHODOX BIBLE-BASED CULT'

    Not me either.

    A group is called a cult because of their behaviour - not their doctrines. Doctrine is an issue in the area of Apologetics and Heresy. Most religious cults do teach what the Christian church would declare to be heresy but some do not. Some cults teach the basics of the Christian faith but have behavioural patterns that are abusive, controlling and cultic.

    Not me.

    This occurs in both Non-Charismatic and Charismatic churches. These groups teach the central doctrines of the Christian faith and then add the extra authority of leadership or someone's particular writings. They centre around the interpretations of the leadership and submissive and unquestioning acceptance of these is essential to be a member of good standing. This acceptance includes what we consider non-essential doctrines e.I. not salvation issues (such as the Person and Work of Christ.) The key is that they will be using mind control or undue influence on their members.

    Not me. Sounds more like Catholics and some christians.

    An excellent book on this subject is "Churches that Abuse" by Dr Ronald Enroth.

    Using these guidelines of definition, Bible-based, Psychological, Educational and Commercial aberrations can easily be identified.

    OTHER IDENTIFICATION MARKS

    (a) The group will have an ELITIST view of itself in relation to others, and a UNIQUE CAUSE. e.I. THEY ARE THE ONLY ONES RIGHT - everyone else is wrong. THEY ARE THE ONLY ONES DOING GOD'S WILL - everyone else is in apostasy.

    This describes the christian cult. This is not me for sure.


    (b) They will promote their cause actively, and in doing so, abuse God-given personal rights and freedoms. This abuse can be THEOLOGICAL, SPIRITUAL, SOCIAL & PSYCHOLOGICAL.

    HOW THEY DO THIS

    1. Their leader/s may claim a special, exclusive ministry, revelation or position of authority given by God.

    Like the pope?


    2. They believe they are the only true church and take a critical stance regarding the Christian church while at the same time praising and exalting their own group, leader/s and work.

    3. They use intimidation or psychological manipulation to keep members loyal to their ranks. This could be in the form of threats of dire calamity sent by God if they leave; certain death at Armageddon; being shunned by their family and friends etc. This is a vital part of the mind control process.

    4. Members will be expected to give substantial financial support to the group. This could be compulsory tithing (which is checked); signing over all their property on entering the group; coercive methods of instilling guilt on those who have not contributed; selling magazines, flowers or other goods for the group as part of their "ministry".

    5. At the same time bible-based cults may ridicule churches that take up free-will offerings by passing collection plates and/or sell literature and tapes. They usually brag that they don't do this. This gives outsiders the intimation that they are not interested in money.

    6. There will be great emphasis on loyalty to the group and its teachings. The lives of members will be totally absorbed into the group's activities. They will have little or no time to think for themselves because of physical and emotional exhaustion. This is also a vital part of the mind control process.

    7. There will be total control over almost all aspects of the private lives of members. This control can be direct through communal living, or constant and repetitious teaching on "how to be a true Christian" or "being obedient to leadership". Members will look to their leaders for guidance in everything they do.

    8. Bible-based cults may proclaim they have no clergy/laity distinction and no paid ministry class - that they are all equal.

    9. Any dissent or questioning of the group's teachings is discouraged. Criticism in any form is seen as rebellion. There will be an emphasis on authority, unquestioning obedience and submission. This is vigilantly maintained.

    10. Members are required to demonstrate their loyalty to the group in some way. This could be in the form of "dobbing" on fellow members (including family) under the guise of looking out for "spiritual welfare".

    They may be required to deliberately lie (heavenly deception/theocratic strategy) or give up their lives by refusing some form of medical treatment.

    11. Attempts to leave or reveal embarrassing facts about the group may be met with threats. Some may have taken oaths of loyalty that involve their lives or have signed a "covenant" and feel threatened by this.

    Refugees of the group are usually faced with confrontations by other members with coercion to get them to return to the group.

    Definitely not me.

    SOME ABUSES OF RIGHTS AND FREEDOMS:-

    1. ABUSE OF INDIVIDUALITY They adopt a "groupness" mentality. They are not permitted to think for themselves apart from the group and only accept what they are told.

    2. ABUSE OF INTIMACY Relationships with friends, relatives, spouses, children, parents etc are broken or seriously hampered.

    3. ABUSE OF FINANCES Pressure to give all you can to the group. In non-communal groups, members usually live at the lower socio-economic strata, not because of a lower income level, but because they are always giving money to the group for some reason.

    Ewww, I know a church of god person that does this. Creepy.

    4. "US VERSUS THEM" MENTALITY Isolation from the community in general. Anyone and everything outside the group is seen as "of the devil" or "unenlightened" etc. Their enemies now include former friends; the Christian church; governments; education systems; the media - the world in general. Those who are involved with these in any way see such involvement as a "means to an end".

    The part I bolded sounds like the christians motivation for believing.

    5. ABUSE OF TIME AND ENERGY The group controls and uses almost all the members time and energy in group activities. They are usually in a constant state of mental and physical exhaustion.

    6. ABUSE OF FREE WILL They must unquestioning submit to the groups teachings and directions and their own free will is broken. Their "will" actually becomes the groups "will" without their realizing it. This is done either by coercive methods including low protein diets and lack of sleep, or over a period through intimidation. Both methods make heavy use of "guilt".

    RESULTS OF THIS ABUSE

    1. PERSONALITY CHANGES
    Relatives will say they no longer recognize the person. From a warm, loving personality will come heaped abuse, rejection and feelings of hate. The cult member sees himself as "righteous" in comparison and this comes across in their attitude toward all outsiders.

    2. LOSS OF IDENTITY
    They cannot see themselves as individuals apart from the group. Some even change their name as a rejection of their former life.

    3. PARANOID - WE ARE BEING PERSECUTED
    Any time you say anything negative about the group, whether justified or no, it is regarded as "persecution". Any criticism of the individual is also seen as persecution only because they are the "true Christian" or "enlightened" one - not because they, as an individual, have done the wrong thing. However, at the same time they will feel free to criticise whatever you believe, say and do because they are "the only ones who are right".

    4. SOCIAL DISORIENTATION
    They lose their ability to socialize outside the group. This can go so far as to not being able to structure their time or make simple decisions for themselves when they leave.

    Their world-view alters and they perceive the world through their leaders eyes. They become very naïve about life in general.

    5. SEVERE GUILT COMPLEXES
    They are made to feel guilty of everything they did before entering the group and are to strive to be "good" and "worthy" for "eternal life". Misdemeanors are made into "mountains" so that members are in a constant state of guilt for infringing even the most minor rules. Guilt comes because they aren't doing enough; entertaining doubts or questions; even thinking rationally for oneself.

    This guilt is piled upon pile with new rules constantly being laid down about what is sinful and what is not. Illness may be seen as lack of faith - more guilt. Emotional illness may be seen as proof of sin in your life - more guilt.

    SUMMARY

    Not all these points will be found in every cult, but all cults will have some if not most of them, although these may vary to some degree.

    Copyright 1985, 1991 Jan Groenveld
    Internet Address: [email protected]
    Mail: PO Box 2444 Mansfield Q 4122 Australia

    Reproduction is permitted only if text is intact. The above identifying information must be left intact.

    After reading all of this, I can truly say that I am not "cult material". Neither is our kaballa friend.
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    Apr 22, 2009, 02:38 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by cozyk View Post
    ere has been much confusion about cults and how to 'pickem'.

    I clicked on your cult link and this is what I discovered.

    Some have difficulty identifying a cult because it is not so easy to identify one that is not even religious. For this reason, over the years, different definitions of what actually is a cult have developed to make it easier when you know little about their beliefs.

    The different definitions:

    SECULAR DEFINITION
    CULT - From the Latin "cultis" which denotes all that is involved in worship, ritual, emotion, liturgy and attitude. This definition actually denotes what we call denominations and sects and would make all religious movements a cult.

    That's not me. Not part of a religious movement or denomination.

    CHRISTIAN DEFINITION

    CULT - Any group which deviates from Biblical, orthodox, historical Christianity. e.i. They deny the Deity of Christ; His physical resurrection; His personal and physical return to earth and salvation by FAITH alone.

    Not me. I deviate from the bible only because there is no way to know it is correct but I do not deny a diety because I believe He dwells in all of us at a certain level.

    This definition only covers those groups which are cults within the Christian religion. It does not cover cults within other world religions such as Islam and Hinduism. Nor does it cover Psychological, Commercial or Educational cults which do not recognize the Bible as a source of reality.

    UNIVERSAL DEFINITION

    CULT - Any group which has a pyramid type authoritarian leadership structure with all teaching and guidance coming from the person/persons at the top. The group will claim to be the only way to God; Nirvana; Paradise; Ultimate Reality; Full Potential, Way to Happiness etc, and will use thought reform or mind control techniques to gain control and keep their members. This definition covers cults within all majopr world religions, along with those cults which have no OBVIOUS religious base such as commercial, educational and psychological cults. Others may define these a little differently, but this is the simplest to work from. THE 'ORTHODOX BIBLE-BASED CULT'

    Not me either.

    A group is called a cult because of their behaviour - not their doctrines. Doctrine is an issue in the area of Apologetics and Heresy. Most religious cults do teach what the Christian church would declare to be heresy but some do not. Some cults teach the basics of the Christian faith but have behavioural patterns that are abusive, controlling and cultic.

    Not me.

    This occurs in both Non-Charismatic and Charismatic churches. These groups teach the central doctrines of the Christian faith and then add the extra authority of leadership or someone's particular writings. They centre around the interpretations of the leadership and submissive and unquestioning acceptance of these is essential to be a member of good standing. This acceptance includes what we consider non-essential doctrines e.i. not salvation issues (such as the Person and Work of Christ.) The key is that they will be using mind control or undue influence on their members.

    Not me. Sounds more like Catholics and some christians.

    An excellent book on this subject is "Churches that Abuse" by Dr Ronald Enroth.

    Using these guidelines of definition, Bible-based, Psychological, Educational and Commercial aberrations can easily be identified.

    OTHER IDENTIFICATION MARKS

    (a) The group will have an ELITIST view of itself in relation to others, and a UNIQUE CAUSE. e.i. THEY ARE THE ONLY ONES RIGHT - everyone else is wrong. THEY ARE THE ONLY ONES DOING GOD'S WILL - everyone else is in apostasy.

    This describes the christian cult. This is not me for sure.


    (b) They will promote their cause actively, and in doing so, abuse God-given personal rights and freedoms. This abuse can be THEOLOGICAL, SPIRITUAL, SOCIAL & PSYCHOLOGICAL.

    HOW THEY DO THIS

    1. Their leader/s may claim a special, exclusive ministry, revelation or position of authority given by God.

    Like the pope?


    2. They believe they are the only true church and take a critical stance regarding the Christian church while at the same time praising and exalting their own group, leader/s and work.

    3. They use intimidation or psychological manipulation to keep members loyal to their ranks. This could be in the form of threats of dire calamity sent by God if they leave; certain death at Armageddon; being shunned by their family and friends etc. This is a vital part of the mind control process.

    4. Members will be expected to give substantial financial support to the group. This could be compulsory tithing (which is checked); signing over all their property on entering the group; coercive methods of instilling guilt on those who have not contributed; selling magazines, flowers or other goods for the group as part of their "ministry".

    5. At the same time bible-based cults may ridicule churches that take up free-will offerings by passing collection plates and/or sell literature and tapes. They usually brag that they don't do this. This gives outsiders the intimation that they are not interested in money.

    6. There will be great emphasis on loyalty to the group and its teachings. The lives of members will be totally absorbed into the group's activities. They will have little or no time to think for themselves because of physical and emotional exhaustion. This is also a vital part of the mind control process.

    7. There will be total control over almost all aspects of the private lives of members. This control can be direct through communal living, or constant and repetitious teaching on "how to be a true Christian" or "being obedient to leadership". Members will look to their leaders for guidance in everything they do.

    8. Bible-based cults may proclaim they have no clergy/laity distinction and no paid ministry class - that they are all equal.

    9. Any dissent or questioning of the group's teachings is discouraged. Criticism in any form is seen as rebellion. There will be an emphasis on authority, unquestioning obedience and submission. This is vigilantly maintained.

    10. Members are required to demonstrate their loyalty to the group in some way. This could be in the form of "dobbing" on fellow members (including family) under the guise of looking out for "spiritual welfare".

    They may be required to deliberately lie (heavenly deception/theocratic strategy) or give up their lives by refusing some form of medical treatment.

    11. Attempts to leave or reveal embarrassing facts about the group may be met with threats. Some may have taken oaths of loyalty that involve their lives or have signed a "covenant" and feel threatened by this.

    Refugees of the group are usually faced with confrontations by other members with coercion to get them to return to the group.

    Definitely not me.

    SOME ABUSES OF RIGHTS AND FREEDOMS:-

    1. ABUSE OF INDIVIDUALITY They adopt a "groupness" mentality. They are not permitted to think for themselves apart from the group and only accept what they are told.

    2. ABUSE OF INTIMACY Relationships with friends, relatives, spouses, children, parents etc are broken or seriously hampered.

    3. ABUSE OF FINANCES Pressure to give all you can to the group. In non-communal groups, members usually live at the lower socio-economic strata, not because of a lower income level, but because they are always giving money to the group for some reason.

    Ewww, I know a church of god person that does this. Creepy.

    4. "US VERSUS THEM" MENTALITY Isolation from the community in general. Anyone and everything outside the group is seen as "of the devil" or "unenlightened" etc. Their enemies now include former friends; the Christian church; governments; education systems; the media - the world in general. Those who are involved with these in any way see such involvement as a "means to an end".

    The part I bolded sounds like the christians motivation for believing.

    5. ABUSE OF TIME AND ENERGY The group controls and uses almost all the members time and energy in group activities. They are usually in a constant state of mental and physical exhaustion.

    6. ABUSE OF FREE WILL They must unquestioning submit to the groups teachings and directions and their own free will is broken. Their "will" actually becomes the groups "will" without their realizing it. This is done either by coercive methods including low protein diets and lack of sleep, or over a period of time through intimidation. Both methods make heavy use of "guilt".

    RESULTS OF THIS ABUSE

    1. PERSONALITY CHANGES
    Relatives will say they no longer recognize the person. From a warm, loving personality will come heaped abuse, rejection and feelings of hate. The cult member sees himself as "righteous" in comparison and this comes across in their attitude toward all outsiders.

    2. LOSS OF IDENTITY
    They cannot see themselves as individuals apart from the group. Some even change their name as a rejection of their former life.

    3. PARANOID - WE ARE BEING PERSECUTED
    Any time you say anything negative about the group, whether justified or no, it is regarded as "persecution". Any criticism of the individual is also seen as persecution only because they are the "true Christian" or "enlightened" one - not because they, as an individual, have done the wrong thing. However, at the same time they will feel free to criticise whatever you believe, say and do because they are "the only ones who are right".

    4. SOCIAL DISORIENTATION
    They lose their ability to socialize outside the group. This can go so far as to not being able to structure their time or make simple decisions for themselves when they leave.

    Their world-view alters and they perceive the world through their leaders eyes. They become very naive about life in general.

    5. SEVERE GUILT COMPLEXES
    They are made to feel guilty of everything they did before entering the group and are to strive to be "good" and "worthy" for "eternal life". Misdemeanors are made into "mountains" so that members are in a constant state of guilt for infringing even the most minor rules. Guilt comes because they aren't doing enough; entertaining doubts or questions; even thinking rationally for oneself.

    This guilt is piled upon pile with new rules constantly being laid down about what is sinful and what is not. Illness may be seen as lack of faith - more guilt. Emotional illness may be seen as proof of sin in your life - more guilt.

    SUMMARY

    Not all these points will be found in every cult, but all cults will have some if not most of them, although these may vary to some degree.

    Copyright 1985, 1991 Jan Groenveld
    Internet Address: [email protected]
    Mail: PO Box 2444 Mansfield Q 4122 Australia

    Reproduction is permitted only if text is intact. The above identifying information must be left intact.

    After reading all of this, I can truly say that I am not "cult material". Neither is our kaballa friend.

    TYVM:):D

    I am so onboard with you
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    Apr 22, 2009, 02:54 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by lighterrr View Post
    Thank you so much for getting it. The behaviour these christian on this board display is exactly the problem. Closed minded quoting all this passages from the bible is absolutely irrelevant to me anyways. Only difference with me these days is that i have a spiritual belief that does not belong to any organized religion. This belief allows me to love God and Jesus:).
    Actually some of us here are NOT closed mind. Some of us DO understand the Bible but evidently can not make others understand what their minds are closed to.
    Religion is not the answer.
    Calculating logic in your own reasoning no matter how spiritual it seems is not the complete answer.
    Knowing God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit IS the answer.
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    Apr 22, 2009, 04:00 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    Actually some of us here are NOT closed mind. Some of us DO understand the Bible but evidently can not make others understand what their minds are closed to.
    Religion is not the answer.
    Calculating logic in your own reasoning no matter how spiritual it seems is not the complete answer.
    Knowing God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit IS the answer.
    No help, you are right. I know God he lives in my, I meditate to tap into his endless light of love. I love jesus I believe he came to reunite and bring jews and gentiles together and to teach us how to live and treat each other. Knowing god,holy spirit and jesus is great but feeling their presence in your life and changing you ways to emulate the life of christ is a different issue. I also find that most people who refer to themselves a member of organized religion, really hide behind the title and really don't do much more than that, meaning they really make a minimal effort to find God within themselves and trying to connect to the soul within.

    The only difference that I can see from me and mainstream Christians is that I don't see jesus as my lord and saviour, I see myself as the author of my destiny and all that I need in this life to draw near to God is found within me and not the church. To me there is only one God the creator.
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    Apr 22, 2009, 04:41 PM

    Like I always say being in a garage does not make you a car nor a mechanic.
    Going to church does not make you a Christian.
    Drug dealers and the Mafia will tell you they are Christian because they sit in Church ever Sunday and/or their mama & grandma told them they were Christian all their life.
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    Apr 22, 2009, 07:39 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by lighterrr View Post
    No help, you are right. I know God he lives in my, I meditate to tap into his endless light of love. I love jesus I believe he came to reunite and bring jews and gentiles together and to teach us how to live and treat each other. Knowing god,holy spirit and jesus is great but feeling their presence in your life and changing you ways to emulate the life of christ is a different issue. I also find that most people who refer to themselves a member of organized religion, really hide behind the title and really don't do much more than that, meaning they really make a minimal effort to find God within themselves and trying to connect to the soul within.

    The only difference that i can see from me and mainstream Christians is that I don't see jesus as my lord and saviour, i see myself as the author of my destiny and all that i need in this life to draw near to God is found within me and not the church. To me there is only one God the creator.
    I have seen people on this board who call themselves Christians and maybe I have question it from some of their answers. But there are MANY on this board that DO know what Christianity is all about. They have really great knowledge of the Lord and they back up their beliefs with the only real thing they can... The word of God. I'd rather pick up the bible and listen to what God has to say and know for sure that I am doing the right thing. It isn't about coming to him in some spiritual experience. I mean NO disrespect at all when I asked this question but I am curious as to how you connect with God? Is there some guidelines you use? Do you use a Bible? And what do you do with Jesus who is the Christ? YOu say you love him but he died for you and you say you are your own savior. I guess I just don't know how you approach the LORD knowing that you reject his sacrifice he made for you. How does it all work?
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    Apr 22, 2009, 07:56 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by classyT View Post
    i have seen people on this board who call themselves Christians and maybe i have question it from some of their answers. But there are MANY on this board that DO know what Christianity is all about. They have really great knowledge of the Lord and they back up their beliefs with the only real thing they can...The word of God. I'd rather pick up the bible and listen to what God has to say and know for sure that I am doing the right thing. It isn't about coming to him in some spiritual experience. I mean NO disrespect at all when i asked this question but I am curious as to how you connect with God? Is there some guidelines you use? Do you use a Bible? And what do you do with Jesus who is the Christ? YOu say you love him but he died for you and you say you are your own savior. I guess I just don't know how you approach the LORD knowing that you reject his sacrifice he made for you. How does it all work?
    K classy here is how I see it.

    I don't believe that jesus christ is the son of God. I believe and truly love jesus and try to emulate the life he led, by loving thy neighbour as thyselves. My biggest problem with jesus is the title the church and bible has given to him as the messiah the gate keeper to god the creator.

    I don't think you need Jesus to get to God when our creator has created all human beings in his image, God lives in all of us we are all Gods within our own rights.

    When I make contact with the creator. I do it through meditation & fasting and reading the zohar, which is really an explanation of the bible and the laws of the universe and how they apply to its inhabitants. I try to commute my mind, body and soul to center myself so that I may draw nearer to the awesome light of the creator. Even jesus himself fasted and often meditated to draw near to God:). Now I am nowhere as advanced and may never reach the level of enlightenment as some of the great patriots of the bible such as moses, Abraham and of course jesus they had such an intimate relationship with God, their souls where so elevated, to have had such a 1 on 1 interaction with the creator.

    Now this spiritual belief has worked very well for me, I am proud to say that I don't belong to any organized religion and proud of it.:D
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    Apr 22, 2009, 10:42 PM
    I agree with De Maria, ebaines and others so far.
    As example about circumcision.
    It did apply to the Jews but does not apply to the gentiles for they are not bound by the Jewish law.
    Jesus did away with some of that old law but not those that He mentioned such as the Ten Commandments.
    Peace and kindness,
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    Apr 23, 2009, 08:15 PM
    Dare81
    You have made an excellent point.
    I have noticed that tendency often expressed by those who are opposed to or dislike organized religion.
    But it is not exclusive.
    Many of we humans seem to feel or think that we are better then or more superior to others who do not believe as we do.
    It works both ways.
    In cases like that humility is often laking.
    Peace and kindness,
    Fred
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    Apr 23, 2009, 09:34 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Dare81 View Post
    You have become what you disdain. You arguiment here smaks of moral superiority, i am better than these christian, really are you?
    I would never say that I am better than anyone, and if my post gave you that impression I apologize. What I am trying to communicate is that I found my peace and calling in this life when I left the church and denounced christianity. That is all.
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    Apr 23, 2009, 10:03 PM
    lighterrr,
    To each as he/she wants to believe...
    I see that you are interested in the Kabbalah.
    So am I.
    I believe that Jesus Christ is the Tree of Life of the Kabbalah.
    Peace and Kindness,
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    Apr 24, 2009, 05:08 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by arcura View Post
    lighterrr,
    To each as he/she wants to believe.....
    I see that you are interested in the Kabbalah.
    So am I.
    I believe that Jesus Christ is the Tree of Life of the Kabbalah.
    Peace and Kindness,
    Fred (arcura)
    Ty fred same to you
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    Apr 24, 2009, 06:07 AM
    I was reading this thread and came across quite valuable and interesting information. While reading, one thing popped out and I got curious to know:-

    How do we know that someone has a closed mind and how is it that the person who is telling other, does not has a closed mind himself ?
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    Apr 24, 2009, 06:55 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Triund View Post
    I was reading this thread and came across quite valuable and interesting information. While reading, one thing popped out and I got curious to know:-

    How do we know that someone has a closed mind and how is it that the person who is telling other, does not has a closed mind himself ?
    (Romans 12:3) (Eph 4:7)(Eph 4:16)

    Scripture says Christ gives each according to the measure of HIS will and love. So what is revealed to one may not be revealed to another. Each are to serve according to what they hear in Christ. = (RIGHTEOUSNESS) And we are to watch carefully to the end of every word. This makes it pretty individual as chosen by God. The vine is Christ and the only way is Christ. HIS sheep hear HIS voice. Christ walked by every letter of HIS Father's will. And we NOW walk as HE walked and in HIM. . .

    One day everyone will be judge by the words they speak (Matthew 12:36)

    And that is why it is written that prophecy of the scripture is not of private interpretation. Because those who have been gifted to whatever measure Christ has determined, will gain that knowledge by the HOLY SPIRIT in HIS GLORY!

    2 Peter 1:2
    Knowing this first, that no prophecy of the scripture is of any private interpretation.

    Without Christ we can do nothing.
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    Apr 24, 2009, 07:58 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by sndbay View Post
    (Romans 12:3) (Eph 4:7)(Eph 4:16)

    Scripture says Christ gives each according to the measure of HIS will and love. So what is revealed to one may not be revealed to another. Each are to serve according to what they hear in Christ. = (RIGHTEOUSNESS) And we are to watch carefully to the end of every word. This makes it pretty individual as chosen by God. The vine is Christ and the only way is Christ. HIS sheep hear HIS voice. Christ walked by every letter of HIS Father's will. And we NOW walk as HE walked and in HIM. . .

    One day everyone will be judge by the words they speak (Matthew 12:36)

    And that is why it is written that prophecy of the scripture is not of private interpretation. Because those who have been gifted to whatever measure Christ has determined, will gain that knowledge by the HOLY SPIRIT in HIS GLORY!

    2 Peter 1:2
    Knowing this first, that no prophecy of the scripture is of any private interpretation.

    Without Christ we can do nothing.
    I don't see how this scripture answers the question. In your own words please.:confused:

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