[the boss]

Well I'm not 100% sure but I'm at least 80% that my girlfriend lied to me about dumb stuff and I don't know why. But I'm not sure how to approach this situation.

[atreyusmommy104]

Why do u think she lied

[TrueFaith]

This is not an MSN Chat room

You have another post as well

About her making you do stuff that she is not able to do her self

Can you do me a favor?

Write everything down.. yeah
In one post.. and with as much detail as you can have

Because bloody 2 lines.. I can't give you any help.

If you want help put down all your problems and put some god damn details in
Thank you

[atreyusmommy104]

Hahah I agree

[411Help]

If you want any sort of help here you're going to have to be willing to give us more information.

[the boss]

OK sorry but there's small things I think she lied to me about like the other night I called her at 7:30 she told me she was sleep and she would call when she woke up. I said OK. Also a movie she liked came on at 8:00. I received a text message from her at 9:00 saying I just woke up. But the next day when I asked her did she watch her movie that came on she said yea so that would mean she wasn't sleeping. I no this isn't nuthen serious but I don't understand why she lied. There's a few other things as well like I called her and when she picked up I herd her laughing really loud and talking. Then she hung up. I called back and asked why she did that and she lied and said she picked up by mistake and that she was trying to hit the slient button on her phone. I know her voice any where and I'm 100% sure it was her laughing. But she said no it wasn't that it was her sister and that she was slp. I just don't understand why she would lie

[411Help]

Honestly, I think you're looking to deep into the situation. Maybe, she's lying because she wants you to stop calling her. Give her space.

[the boss]

OK that's what I thought to but she's made it clear by saying to me that she does want to talk on the phone and when ever I tell her ill call her lata she says no. really I don't care for talking on the phone but she's always txting me and telling mr to call her

[411Help]

Have you tried asking her about it?

[the boss]

Ummm yea and she always gets very affended and mad

[talaniman]

Do you guys have any fun or is it always drama, and conflict?

[the boss]

Yea we have fun but its been a lot of drama lately like yester day we argued at least 5 times and today like 3

[TrueFaith]

Hmm is it worth putting up with this?
Maybe you guys should just call it quits if you always fight and there's drama..

Im not one to give up.
But we all have to know when its good for us to stop

[411Help]

You stay in a relationship to have fun, not bicker.

[Fiona2003]

It sounds to me like she doesn't respect you.

People lie for a reason and one reason only - it's worked before.

I do agree that she's probably doing it in order to get some space. I don't agree with the way she's communicating that to you.

If you are the type who doesn't lie and doesn't think lying is right, then you should look for someone who shares your opinion. Don't lower yourself for someone who wants to walk all over you.

[the boss]

Yea that's what I been told before but I'm not always syre what to do

[TrueFaith]

Not sure what to do?

Be respected.
Leave the girl man

[talaniman]

Take a vacation from each other.

[the boss]

OK well I guess I could try a vaction

[wukaking19]

Mines the same way man so I stopped calling and just waited for her to call. Then the messed up thing is after 2 days of not calling she called me and got really ticked that I didn't call. Girls are messed up in the head!!