[chula809]

OK people

I don't know but the other day.. I saw a guy that I know for 2 years... and well we stop talking cause I stared to go out with someone else... than we came all the ay to Florida to see me!. and well in Florida he always wanted to be with me but I never say yes loll.. than like a week ago I saw him and well he kiss me but the true is that I still love my ex.. but he hearted and broke my heart 2 times you know what I mean... so I really don't know what to do he lives in Florida too and I don't want to have a long distance relationship again IAM tired of that!! so what can I IAM iAM sooey confuse HELP HELP!! :confused:

[mudweiser]

Don't go back to what you know is bad for you. Stay strong, you've grown a lot since the break up and you don't want to be in that hurt again.

Sarah

[liz28]

First, if you know you don't want to be in a long distance relationship nor deal with it, then don't. We all have things we can and can't tolerant and ldr seems to be one of your "can't".

Secondly, if your not over your ex don't even attempt to date someone right now. Your not able to give yourself fully to someone like you should and it will be unfair to whoevere you become involve with.

Right now you have some emotional bagage that you need to deal with and you need to completely heal yourself before you move on to the next relationship.

The only thing you can do is be honest with this guy and just let him know your not ready for a relationship. He should respect your honest + accept it.

[I wish]

Sounds like you shouldn't be with either of the two guys. Your ex sounds horrible so you should definitely not go back to him.

If you can't handle long distance, then don't start it. You're just giving yourself unnecessary pain.

There are other guys out there.