Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    davfdprez's Avatar
    davfdprez Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #1

    Apr 17, 2009, 07:45 AM
    Fathers new relationship
    Can a father have another woman sleep over (not remarried yet) when it is his turn with the children?
    Justwantfair's Avatar
    Justwantfair Posts: 3,422, Reputation: 944
    Ultra Member
    		  
    #2

    Apr 17, 2009, 07:46 AM

    Yes.

    Do you have other concerns with this woman?
    davfdprez's Avatar
    davfdprez Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #3

    Apr 17, 2009, 07:48 AM

    Yes I do. And I don't think that it is right to confuse the children at this point.
    Justwantfair's Avatar
    Justwantfair Posts: 3,422, Reputation: 944
    Ultra Member
    		  
    #4

    Apr 17, 2009, 07:49 AM

    You are going to have to give more information. Is it illegal, no. Will it lose him custody, doubtful.

    What are your true concerns with him having his girlfriend spend the night when your children visit?
    cadillac59's Avatar
    cadillac59 Posts: 1,326, Reputation: 94
    Ultra Member
    		  
    #5

    Apr 17, 2009, 09:22 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by davfdprez View Post
    Can a father have another woman sleep over (not remarried yet) when it is his turn with the children?
    Yes. Is there something wrong with consenting adults having sex in private when they are not married to each other? It's not only not illegal, it's constitutionally protected behavior in the US.(Lawrence v. Texas (2003) 539 U.S. 558)
    redhed35's Avatar
    redhed35 Posts: 4,221, Reputation: 1910
    Ultra Member
    		  
    #6

    Apr 17, 2009, 09:28 AM

    It all depends on the details.. example.. do your children know this lady?
    Is she apart of your life?
    Will the kids be freaked out if they see her in the morning?
    There's no problem having this lady stay over with you,but I would reconsider if its just a fly by night thing and the kids are around,what if one of the kids get up during the night,or is sick? I'm just trying to play the possibilies.
    N0help4u's Avatar
    N0help4u Posts: 19,823, Reputation: 2035
    Uber Member
    		  
    #7

    Apr 17, 2009, 03:43 PM

    IF it is in the court order that the parent can not have their girlfriend or boyfriend staying there then it is not okay. I have seen Judges put the stipulation in the order because they felt it was in the best interest of the child that it not happen.
    If you can prove she is detrimental to your kids and the Judge feels it is warranted then you might be able to get it in your custody orders.
    The decision isn't yours at all. All you can do is voice your concerns and if it is really bad take it to court with documented proof.
    Fr_Chuck's Avatar
    Fr_Chuck Posts: 81,301, Reputation: 7692
    Expert
    		  
    #8

    Apr 17, 2009, 08:02 PM

    Can you explain more, but normally this is no legal issue at all
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

Relationship problems in 2nd week of relationship [ 5 Answers ]

I'm hoping I can get some meaningful advice on my situation. If not, I really don't know what to do. The whole summer, a girl I work with had been trying to hook me up with this friend of hers who was interested in me. I saw a picture of her, and she was cute.. But everyone is cute, so if I...

After a 4 year relationship I got tired of my relationship and broke up! What to do? [ 2 Answers ]

I’m a gay guy (36 yo) and I dated for 4 years this BI guy(40 yo), at the beginning it was a bit hard for me, I’m very comfortable with being gay! Came out 8 years ago, any way, at the beginning of the relationship I had to pretend in front of his friends that we were just friends, some times after...

How to claim fathers from fathers neglegence in child support after 20 years [ 2 Answers ]

I was born in georgetown guyana.my dad departed yo canada since I was a 4 year old kid,I suffered since because dad never sent one sent to my grandma (his mom to support me)AS A RESULT I WAS PHYSICALLY,PHYCHOLOGICALLY,SEXUALLY AND MORE,abused as a result of dads absence and lck of responsabliity as...

Fathers Day [ 4 Answers ]

So my dad died when I was 8 and he was never the best of guy we were never close or anything. But I seemed to have never gotten over it I still cry all the time and with fathers day coming up so close I have been a total mess. My mom is making me go to dinner with her husband(my step dad) who I...

View more questions Search