[sweethoney]

I've been seeing this guy for a month and on our last date everything was great he even drove me home and we made out on the way and he introduced me to his friends but the next day I didn't hear from him so I text to say hi and he replied:hi ashley how you been it was nice to see you.lets talk later.
And that was 6 days ago!! And haven't heard from him ever since.
p.s.he did that once before,he stopped talking to me but after three days I text and he replied and the just stopped and after another 4 days he called and asked me out
So what's going on and how much longer should I wait before I move on?what should I do without looking needy?
Thanks

[nikosmom]

He's just not that into you.

If he were, you wouldn't have to re-ignite his spark. The fact that he doesn't follow through says a lot about him. If you continue to chase after him, you are headed for much of the same.

Do yourself a favor and don't allow yourself to become any more emotionally involved. Get out now before you become too attached. There's a guy out there that will want to talk to you and spend time with you.

[ChihuahuaMomma]

I couldn't agree more. Move on now, being as this has happened before then you know where you stand.

[roxypox]

That sounds a little confusing and tiering (for you that is)

Like nikosmom said; I think that it might be a good idea for you to move on before you get too attached.

A guy that makes a verbal agreement with you (lets talk later... what's later to him? A day, the same day, a week?) that's not a good sign... what if you keep on dating and he keeps on breaking just small agreements like that?

There really are someone else out there who would be a lot more reliable.

[ScottGem]

I'm going to ask for a more detailed explanation of what "we made out on the way" meant. Also whether it was the first time you did so and how old both of you are.

[sweethoney]

He is 25 and I am 19 and that wasn't the first time we make out
And what I meant is that on the way home he strated joking around with me and poking at me and then we made out

[ScottGem]

The term "made out" can have different meaning to different people. My point here is that if you had sexual relations, had gone further than you had ever gone before, he might have gotten what he wanted from you and is no longer interested.

[sweethoney]

No we still hvent have sex yet and I told him that dy that I was a virgin but he seemed cool about it and apologized if I felt disrespected

[ScottGem]

i told him that dy that i was a virgin

That could have been what turned him off. If it was, then you are well rid of him.