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    littleangle Posts: 10, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 8, 2009, 04:43 PM
    Do you advise her to divorce?
    How should a married woman act in this case: She bought a flat ,she furnished it.She is charged with every thing at home :the children,the laundry,cooking... etc and she is an employee despite all that she doesn't claim,the one who claim is her husband who is charged with few things (He doesn't have a permanent work) .He is not satisfied because he says that she doesn't help him (He asked her to lend him money to work, in reality to give him because he never give back the money lent to him but she does in his behalf because she feels embarrassed when people start asking for their money.)She helped him many times but every time he denied that she did.She often thinks about divorce .What do you advise her to do:confused:
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    twinkiedooter Posts: 12,172, Reputation: 1054
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    Apr 8, 2009, 04:53 PM

    Sounds like he is an extremely expensive gigalo and not a husband or a husband in name only. Any woman that puts up with that sort of behavior out of an adult man either enjoys being used as a doormat or enjoys her live in gigalo. May I suggest she give him the boot as she seems to be doing just fine all by herself.
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    DoulaLC Posts: 10,488, Reputation: 1952
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    Apr 8, 2009, 05:56 PM

    Does he contribute anything to the relationship? If not, what would be the point of staying married?

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