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    starryeyed Posts: 49, Reputation: 6
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    Sep 11, 2006, 12:07 AM
    If your boyfriend has asked you to move in with him, and would help you finish school, that's something different to running away... While it's not so good to totally wreck your relationship with your family, would that be a way for you to be more independent? What would the social consequences be? How long have you been with him, and can you trust him? I think this is a decision you have to make yourself, balancing out the relationship with your family and how they would react later on, whetther or not your boyfriend is reliable in the longterm and how you can live your life so that you can fulfil your potential... What is your boyfriends attitude towards you being able to actually finish school and be independent? Do you live in a muslim community - what is the best solution you can opt for without isolating yourself...
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    Oct 16, 2006, 01:47 PM
    Yes before you leave, you have to be sure the siblings left behind will not be abused. I left home because of abuse, thinking it would end with me. IT DID NOT, my younger siblings went through it also.(Found out years later) I felt horrified. SO please get help for the ones you leave behind..

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