[wmorales]

My fiancé has had really bad relationship backgroung. Girls have left her for a friend and even a family member... but that's y I think he talks to other girls behind my back... he thinks I'm going to leave for his friend... and trust me I woulnt do that... last time he talked to a girl was 4 days ago and he told her that he liked her and that if she did the same that there would be a change in there life... I questions him about it andhe said that he's not going anywhere... I don't no what to think... this is not the first time that he has done this to me and not the last time, so I think. I was about to break up with him but I don't want to loose what we have together... what do you guys think about this? He did say that he wasn't ging anywere.. I need girl side and guy side of the story please..?

[Justwantfair]

I think the other girls figured out that they were dating a player and decided to leave first.

If he knows what it feels like to be cheated on then he would not ever do that to another person. It wouldn't make him a cheater.

I think that you need to get out of this relationship before he really hurts you.

[wmorales]

I think the other girls figured out that they were dating a player and decided to leave first.

If he knows what it feels like to be cheated on then he would not ever do that to another person. It wouldn't make him a cheater.

I think that you need to get out of this relationship before he really hurts you.

Well the thing is that he doenst cheat. He has no way too.. he's always with me and no other person... unless he goes to his friends... what he does is that he tells them that he misses them and when are you coming over her and such... what you think?

[Justwantfair]

I think that he is cheating.

He is hurting you emotionally and disrespecting you as a girlfriend. He is not doing anything that makes this situation a good one to be in.

[wmorales]

Thst true... bu you guys don't understand that he never goes out if its not with me... do you think he's doing it by phone?? And I Wish, I have done that twice

[Justwantfair]

You told us he was doing it. How did you find out?

[wmorales]

Txt messages... that's about it nothing sexual or him going out with anyone... he doesn't have a car

[Justwantfair]

We understand it's not sexual with anyone.

We understand he hasn't slept with anyone else.

You don't understand he is emotionally cheating on you and disrespecting you as a girlfriend with his behaviors... via text messaging or in person.

[wmorales]

OK... well thanks guys...