[Leprikon]

So Hello there. My name is Mike and I would like to ask some advice.

Basically I knew this girl for about 6 years.
We became good friends really fast probably in a year or so.
So I asked her out one day and she says she's sorry that she is seeing somebody else and everything.

Well I though that's aight and I went to live my own life having fun and meeting new people.
The Crush kind of went away so I did not bother to stop talking with her or anything.
We still had a lot of fun as friends.
So She started flirting with me and I flirted back from time to time. She would joke about how her name would sound with my surname and stupid stuff like that.. Well what do you expect we were 16 and 17 at that time.After some time I had to move to a different country.
And we still talked but not so much anymore.
I came to visit from time to time.Still having fun and talking when I had a chance.
So she asked me if she could come visit me sometime and at the time I had some family problems and I said No sorry maybe later.
So she got a boyfriend and I had a girlfriend everything was great.
Her boyfriend moved to same country as me, taking her with him.
We now live 1 hour drive apart.
We still had chats online from time to time.
So one day this girl comes out of nowhere while we were on the train and tells me that We are going to marry in 5 years. And that I'm going to be her husband.
At this point I laughed and said Sure,jokingly. Tho the moment was really awkward.
So I asked her later if she was serious about what she said and she replied: Yes.
And I asked her if she's serious why do you need 5 years to get into a relationship since if you really want to marry somebody you need to build up a relationship with that person.
At that time she still had a boyfriend. And has a boyfriend.
So she just said you will see in 5 years. So they invited me to celebrate new years with them.: Her and her Boyfriend. Which I found really stupid.. She knew I don't really enjoy the company of her boyfriend. But I didn't have any plans so I was sure.
New years was fun I guess in a way. She was flirting with me and saying different things.
So later her boyfriend went to work and.. tho she wanted to say something she did not say it.
Later on I got kind of annoyed by the next thing. They asked me to show them the way 3 times when they came to the place where I live. And I had to find the BUS station in the city I never been in at 3:AM in the morning. I speak fluent english so it was not a problem for me. But I got irritated by the fact that they didn't even showed me the bus stop.
Well after that I got kind of sad. Since friends don't do that.
I called her next morning to tell her that she's a for doing that.. but what I got in response when she asnwered was. "Sorry im kinda busy could you call back later".
So I was like w/e and texted her saying that it would be nice if you could stop contacting me..
She got mad and called me a moron.. Said she does not respect me anymore since I became like the scottish.
Said that if I want her out of my life then so be it.
So I told her that yeah that would be good. She MSG'd me back saying I'm a moron about 50 times.
We did not talk for 3 months. Then we started talking again. But not so friendly anymore since I decided that I got played by her.

So what do you guys think? =) Any advice is good.

[mudweiser]

If she's already starting problems now imagine how it will be later.

I think it's best to keep her as a friend, a distant friend- or even an acquaintance. She doesn't sound like the kind of girl you'd want for a girlfriend, let alone a serious one.

That's my two cents anyway.

MRS.S

[Leprikon]

Cheers for answering =] Took you a while to read my wall of text
Yeah that's what I'm doing atm, she's not a close friend but more of an acquaintance now.

[I wish]

I'm sure that you already know the answer. Keep her as a distant friend.

She is clearly unstable and cheating on her boyfriend with you. Imagine you had a girlfriend who tells another guy that she wants to marry him.

[Homegirl 50]

Advice?
Leave the girl alone. It's that simple. She sounds like trouble and since you're not really feeling her anyway don't ask for trouble.