[Glitr513]

My x and I have been friends for about a year and a half! We were together for about 4 months. Those 4 months were the happiest times for me. My x and I broke up because at the time he said I was immature. However, I grew a strong mother daughter relationship with his mom. I never told x but I lost my virginity with him. However, when holidays or special occasions come around I buy him gifts such as rocawear shirts n sweaters.I even bought him 3 purple label shirts. Honestly I have never felt this way about anyguy. I have tried to move on but those relationships failed! He is currently single and is partyin a lot before he goes away to collage. I still love my x a lot! How do I tell him or should I even tell him! And another question is how do I bring up me wanting to go to prom with him! He means so much to me I don't want to lose him. I also want to ask him how he feels about me because we still keep in contact and we always try to find time to chill with one another even though sometimes our plans don't go as follows

[mudweiser]

Do you still talk to him on a regular basis? Are you still friends? If you are you can casually ask him to go to prom with you.

However, if you don't and you've both parted ways the best thing to do is to keep it that way.

You said that he's partying before college, and he broke up with you. Chances are he doesn't want a relationship, in which I understand completely: your both graduating and going to college, going to different directions- I know a whole high school sweetheart sounds really nice but well it doesn't work out that way and if it does rarely do they stay together in the long run.

It's time for both of you to spread your wings, meet new people and find yourselves. I really think it's best to keep your feelings to yourself, if he wanted you back he would have said so.

Yes, breaking up is hard, it's sad and can be quite depressing but you'll always recover.

In the meantime focus on things like college and making your application look better by doing some volunteering [trust me it helps a whole lot], become a big sister [if you can], go to a retirement home and apply to become a volunteer, coordinate a can-drive, join in extra-curricular activities at school [i.e. debate team, prom committee, etc.] -- all of these things are a great way to keep you busy and it'll benefit you not only in the future but it'll keep your mind busy and off your ex.

MRS.S

[roxypox]

How old are you?

I think you might be going down a slippery slope here... you guys broke up and there is prob a reason for that...

[liz28]

Buying him things won't make him want to be with you nor forming a relationship with his mom won't work either.

If the two of you are only friends than maybe you should leave it that way. If you can't accept being his ways because of your feelings for his than maybe being friends with him isn't a bright idea either.