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    #381

    Mar 26, 2009, 06:07 AM

    You have asked that question and its been answered, re-read your own thread. Geez guy, your going in circles now.
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    #382

    Mar 26, 2009, 06:29 AM

    How many times are you going to run head first into the wall before you realize it's not going to budge?
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    #383

    Mar 26, 2009, 06:30 AM

    He reminds me of this one member... KCTiger... I think that is his name... :cool:
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    #384

    Mar 26, 2009, 07:20 AM

    He does, that KCtiger was stubborn, always asking for more punishment, thankfully he wised up and even gives good advice every now and then.
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    #385

    Mar 26, 2009, 10:22 AM

    Oops sorry... I did ask that before. Going back and forth here in my head... alrighty then. ;)
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    #386

    Mar 26, 2009, 12:29 PM

    Hey everyone... just got an email from our mutual "friend"... I have it in my inbox haven't read it yet.

    It looks like he forwarded me a message from her. Uall think I should delete it right? I know you said to delete her stuff... but you didn't say anything about his.
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    #387

    Mar 26, 2009, 12:31 PM

    Delete...

    Can't you find a new friend, this one seems to be encouraging the pain.
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    #388

    Mar 26, 2009, 12:33 PM

    FIND A NEW FRIEND!! Delete anything that comes from him, I will send you $80 if you get that tattooed on your arm "No contact means NO CONTACT"
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    #389

    Mar 26, 2009, 12:33 PM

    Hi Crazy,

    We meant all stuff pertaining to her whether it comes from this mutual friend or not. I think we even said to delete stuff from him too. You are torturing yourself. I think I speak for everyone when I say 'Dont read it, delete it'. Its for your own good.
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    #390

    Mar 26, 2009, 12:34 PM

    Forward it to me, and I will translate it for you...
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    #391

    Mar 26, 2009, 12:37 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by kctiger View Post
    Forward it to me, and I will translate it for you...
    Me too, me too!
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    #392

    Mar 26, 2009, 12:38 PM

    He has to open it to forward it...

    I think it is time for the "friend" to get a farking clue. I don't know why Crazy you consider this person a "friend", he is a clueless piece.
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    #393

    Mar 26, 2009, 03:04 PM

    Thanks everyone for the input!!

    Here's where I am...

    I DID GET THE EMAIL FROM OUR "FRIEND"... I didn't read it! :) not until I got your advice... anyway... about 2 minutes later he calls me and leaves me a message.

    I didn't answer my phone on purpose...

    Anyway, I was getting email from other things... and I had to.. because you know how you can read the subject line and all... it wasn't my intention... but I did.

    Like I said, I haven't read it yet but what I did read was from him saying on the subject line... "but i want to be your friend"


    WHAT THE H#LL?

    So, I imagine the email that he forwarded to me from her... was that she dumped me for good or whatever her reasons were...

    Anyway, any help out there? I'm going crazy because I want to read the email but I will DEFINITELY take everyone's advice and delete it with one eye open!

    BUT what do I do because he called me and left me a message? Its rude of me considering I've known him for sometime to not return his call don't you think? It would seem like I was afraid to talk to him!

    I could always call him back and say first thing... dont say anything to me about her... whether he slips and says otherwise is another story.

    HELP! The weekend is coming up and any worse news then I'm already going through would be really bad...

    Advice.
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    #394

    Mar 26, 2009, 03:06 PM

    Hey.. I just thought of something...

    Maybe I could email him saying for him not to tell me anything... and that ill call him next week. How does that sound?
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    #395

    Mar 26, 2009, 03:16 PM

    Why are you opening yourself up for more pain? This guy is obviously not taking your feelings and emotions into consideration since all he's doing is relaying messages from her... Is he a good friend you hang around with regularly? If not then it would be best to keep away from him. Ignore all the texts and emails. You are trying to heal AND HE JUST KEEPS TRYING TO OPEN YOUR WOUNDS...
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    #396

    Mar 26, 2009, 03:31 PM

    Yeah that's a good point.. heartbroke. I did tell him last time we talked that I didn't want him to say anything about her.

    So maybe your right for me not to return his calls... but you know, at the same time I don't want to completely be rude... ill probably write an email saying that I deleted his email and that I'm going to chill for awhile... ill call him in a couple of weeks...

    He's not that good of a friend heart broke... so...

    Does this sound cool to you or should I ingore him completely like you say?
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    #397

    Mar 26, 2009, 03:32 PM
    If I do ingore him then I give her the satisfaction that I DID read her email... not that I'm playing games but I think that that would pi%% her off even more than anything... because SHE didn't get the last words!
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    #398

    Mar 26, 2009, 03:38 PM

    It almost sounds like you encourage drama in your life... playing games and last words...
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    #399

    Mar 26, 2009, 03:49 PM

    Hmmmmm... maybe your right. I got to think about that one. But if it was your friend... would you ingnore him completely?
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    #400

    Mar 26, 2009, 03:58 PM

    If he was my friend he would have respected my decision to cut her out of my life and not relay messages from her.

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