If it was a closed adoption, then do NOT get your hopes up. It's good to look, but don't expect some happy, joy-filled reunion. There are plenty of reasons a birthparent may not want a reunion.
That being said, have you registered at websites with reunion pages? ISSR, Adoption.com and Adoption.org are 3 great ones.
Have you contacted the adoption agency used? Sometimes they will allow you to place a letter with your contact information in it in your file for birthparents if they look for you.
Same thing for the county where the adoption took place--have you left a letter in your adoption file there to be given to birthparents if they come looking for you?
With the previous 2 suggestions--have you checked to see if a birthparent has left you anything there?
Have you looked into hiring a private detective? While that can get spendy, that is also a way that usually gets results.
WHY can you not get answers, if I may ask?
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