[I am not a Patsy]

First of all I am 16 years old. I dated his guy for about 4 months. We broke up about 5 months ago. I broke up with him because he was always trying to control me and suspected that I had interest in every guy I came in contact with. He's a really nice person most of the time so I try to stay his friend. He still controls me. He still calls constantly and yells if I'm around another guy. Last night he crashed one of my friends parties and told me to come to his car so we could just "talk". Before I knew it he had me locked in while he was speeding to his house. I kept telling him to let me out but he kept laughing like it was hilarious. He's constantly trying to fight me(verbally). He just won't leave me alone. I have an attachment to this guy emotionally but I need advise on how to resolve this problem. I'm desperate for advise. Please be as honest and blunt as possible. :confused::confused::confused::(

[Claire58]

Oooh girl, you need to let your parents know, sounds like the classic case of abusive relationship. Haven't you seen the stories on the news about the guyz that killed their gfs because they "loved" them. I'm scared for you you should take every measure to stay away from him. Please let your parents and others know. Stay safe!
His actions are not normal, get as emotionally unattached to him as possible. Don't go back to him thinking "well he treats me nice sometimes" that dude is crazy. I can't stress enough LEAVE HIM! RED FLAG!