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sev1 · Mar 20, 2009, 06:07 PM

Im almost 20 n have had a few sexual partners n I just can't reach an orgasm on just penatration is something wrong with me?

Alty · Mar 20, 2009, 06:09 PM

No, nothing is wrong with you. Most women can't orgasm through just penetration.

sev1 · Mar 20, 2009, 06:11 PM

Is there anything I can do to be able to do it or is it just neva gana happen for me?

Alty · Mar 20, 2009, 06:18 PM

The reason why most women don't orgasm through penetration alone is that the penis doesn't hit our errogenous zones, the clitoris, the G-spot etc. There are position you can try, stimulation beforehand almost to the point of orgasm sometimes works.

You're still young, you have to learn your own body, what makes you tick then experiment (always safe experimentation, with a condom and the pill). You and your partner have to figure each other out, and that can be a lot of fun. Furthermore, just relax, enjoy, don't stress about it. If all that's on your mind is orgasm, you'll never get there.

Enjoy, have fun, play safe, do some research, masterbate (that's the best way to learn your own body) and relax.

Have fun and good luck.

sev1 · Mar 20, 2009, 06:22 PM

thanxs heaps I hope it does work plus I'm single now guess ill have to wait till I find that special sum1 to prctice with also I was reali stressed with my x I think that contributed to it

Alty · Mar 20, 2009, 06:24 PM

Stress never helps when sex is concerned, that's for sure.

While you're single get a few books, explore your own body. You can't expect a man to find all the sweet spots if you can't give him directions. ;)

Good luck, I hope I helped. :)

Fr_Chuck · Mar 20, 2009, 07:18 PM

And I am getting real tired of the text talk,
As your warning, if you keep it up, you will not be allowed to post any longer

JoeCanada76 · Mar 20, 2009, 07:51 PM

No,

I agree with fr chuck. Enough with the text talk. If your problem is important one to solve. You will write everything out properly so everyone can understand exactly what your saying. ENGLISH PLEASE.

Synnen · Mar 20, 2009, 09:30 PM

For someone almost 20, your posts make me think you're 12.

MOST women cannot have an orgasm through penetration alone. It may NEVER happen.

Doesn't mean anything's wrong with you--it just means you have to teach your partners that porn doesn't know CRAP about the female body and how it works.

If you know how to get yourself to orgasm, then teach HIM how that works for you, and use it.

If you don't know how to get yourself to orgasm, then TEACH yourself. No man should know your body better than you do.

Choux · Mar 21, 2009, 09:27 AM

I think it is possible that you are too immature physically and emotionally to be orgasmic. IN American culture, despite all the sex saturated culture(or because of), many women have no idea how to be a real live passionate woman. The media portrays young women as mindless idiots to be manipulated by men. LIndsay, Paris, etal.

There is a great belief that orgasms automatically happen no matter what a person's emotional self is all about.

Why don't you stop having sex and devote some time to developing yourself.