What should I do?

loveae · Mar 20, 2009, 07:58 AM

Edited for chat speak, and bad spelling and a lot of grammer errors

Hey there everyone I wanted to ask you a little question. Well me, and my boyfriend ,have been dating for almost 9 months, and its starting to feel like parents are getting in the way of things, I don't know what do you think I should do? We get in little fights sometimes, and his parents do have to come, and get me most have the time do you think that, this could be the problem? I don't know maybe it could just be me, because were not great right now, were okay. I don't want to lose him, or anything, but it doesn't feel like that, I don't know, its kind complicated to explain, but some advice would help!! :confused:

gurlygurl101 · Mar 20, 2009, 08:02 AM

BREAK UP! Its easiest ashley. Lol. Love u

liz28 · Mar 20, 2009, 08:06 AM

His parents aren't getting in the way he is putting them in the way. If the two of you've agrument and he run to phone and calls his parents in the mist of things bothering them to come and get him don't you think they're fed up with you two? If it was me I would leave him there especially if he keeps going back.

How old are you two and what is with all the agruements? If the two of you can't talk things out in a civil mature matter than the two of you shouldn't be together.

liz28 · Mar 20, 2009, 08:08 AM

Originally Posted by gurlygurl101

BREAK UP! its easiest ashley. lol. love u

You know the poster?

gurlygurl101 · Mar 20, 2009, 08:13 AM

Yeah. She's my best friends

loveae · Mar 20, 2009, 08:13 AM

Okay thanks and he is 17, and I'm 16!!

liz28 · Mar 20, 2009, 08:32 AM

This is too much to deal with at 16. Yes, you need to leave because the two of you would be better off. I surprise your parents allow him into your house. Time to move on and not enter a relationship until your mature enough to handle it.

talaniman · Mar 20, 2009, 06:31 PM

We get in little fights sometimes, and his parents do have to come, and get me

Don't understand what exactly you mean but, the problem is the two of you don't seem to get along, and can't solve your problems.

That doesn't sound like fun and you may be better off leaving him alone and seeking a more compatible partner.

loveae · Mar 20, 2009, 11:46 PM

Threads merged.

Hey everyone my boyfriend lied to me about his sex life and he said he forgot all about it when I asked him. I found out threw someone else and asked him about it and then he told me the truth then. So should I believe him and think he forgot about it or what? Because I found out his ex and him kind of had sex and she went around saying she was pregrant and he never told me any of this because he forgot about it. Tell me that he just didn't want to tell me because how can he forget about this. I know if it was me I would never forget that... :( so what should I do...

beckysue1973 · Mar 20, 2009, 11:59 PM

First off are you having protected sex? If not the first thing that I would do is get tested for std's/hiv. I don't see how anyone could forget about having sex with someone unless they were unconscious. He seems to have selective memory. If he lied about that he will lie about other things. Might be time to cut your losses and move on...

talaniman · Mar 21, 2009, 06:37 AM

Why are you still with a guy that you have so many problems with? You should be having bigtime fun at your age, and not one drama after another.

neverme · Mar 21, 2009, 06:42 AM

Say goodbye and move on to someone that you don't fight with, that forgets important acts as in having sex with someone!!

Cut your losses and go before you end up with a headache... and most likely an std.

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