[blue1423]

Well I already made a post somewhat similar to this but this is kind of an update. Anyway... heres the deal, me and my girlfriend broke up last week because she had a talk with her mom that convinced her of things she might not have felt herself, so she broke up with me, later that day at night she was totally regretting it and came back crying to me saying she wanted to be with me forever and she was just stressed that's why she said that stuff

So we were doing good and fine until yesterday when her sister (who really doesn't like me by the way haha) had a long talk with her about how I wasn't for her, and she was convinced as well and got her sis to call and tell me she broke up with me because she didn't want to miss me by being in contact with me and coming back

Later that night, which was last night, after me not texting or calling her for a few hours, I just texted her to say goodnight and she was balling apperently, regretting again breaking up with me, she said that her sis just got to her head and said some things that wrnt' true, like her mom going to make her not see me anyway, which is a lie, her mom will never make her do that. Anyway then she sent me a long letter at like midnight and told me to read it, I did this morning and it was full of her true feelings about how she wants only me forever and that megan and her mom just got to her head.

And saying that she wanted to get back with me again etc. etc. so then she texted me this morning saying how stupid she was and that she wanted me back, that they just got to her head and now she wants to make her own choice and she wantes to be with me.

So I was like cool, I have her back and we kept texting while we were both at school. Then at about 3:21 ish she got on the bus with her sister and apperently they talked again, and she went right back to saying "idk what i want" and telling me things her sister is telling her about how she's better without me etc. she just keeps saying "idk what i want!" "idk!" so then she stops texting me (her sister is with her the whole time during this)

Then I look on her myspace and she took off our pictures saying she's single etc. so I'm like... "?!?!??!!" cause earlier that day she was talking about loving me and she made a mistake... and here I am now. Cause I'm just so confused. Without her sister being there to talk to her about me, she wouldn't be doing anything like this. So I don't think its her doing what she's doing... everytime she talks to her sis she just believes whatever she's telling her.

So I don't know is going on. I want to be with her, I don't know what the deal is. She still hasn't texted me back and its been like 2 hours (shes probably still with her sis). So what's going through her head? Her sis is just manipulating her apperently. Sorry for the large thread... advice would be helpful

[liz28]

First off, how old is this girl? If she's an adult and need other people to tell her what to do than I wouldn't even what her nor waste anymore crying over her.

Move forward and find someone with a backbone.

[Homegirl 50]

I'm thinking they are both teenagers.

How old are you and how old is she.
I say leave her alone until she is older or can think for herself

[blue1423]

I'm thinking they are both teenagers.

How old are you and how old is she.
I say leave her alone until she is older or can think for herself

Haha yes we are both teenagers. She is mature... its just her sister convicing her of things, and she is having trouble figuring out what she wants to do... and I don't know what to make of it.

[Homegirl 50]

She is young and confused. How old is she?
Im thinking maybe 14, 15? And you are probably older and her mother and sister don't like it.
Leave her alone until she is older.