Should I tell them?

MsMewiththat · Mar 16, 2009, 01:12 PM

Bubbles95
It is clear that you are conflicted with many feelings. Talk to which ever of your parents or counselors at school that can help you best sort this out. You may very well not want to have this conversation with your parents if you don't feel that they will be able to handle this topic of the conversation or if you fear that they will treat you or your friend any differently. MY advice to you would be to seek the counseling help of a school counselor and with their help make the decision to speak with someone ( adult in your life) that you can trust. Preferably your parents but understand it's your comfort that will make all the difference in the outcome of these conversations. Maybe you can tell your parents that you are needing to seek counseling for some confusion. Which ever works best. However, get the advice of someone that is specifically educated to help you through this time in your life.

Bubbles95 · Mar 16, 2009, 01:14 PM

Who is all talking to me and who is agreeing with who... I'm so confused:(

MsMewiththat · Mar 16, 2009, 01:19 PM

Don't be confused. I'm a christian, I believe in God as you have expressed that you do. It is important that if you believe and you have the feelings that you do that you sort them out for what they mean to you. I think it is important that you get the help of a counselor. I would suggest pastor or priest but they too very well may preach to you the teachings of the bible. Maybe that is what you are after or maybe that is okay. It's important that whomever you choose to work this out with is a trust worthy adult and has your best interest at heart. Choosing to listen to anyone person that has a stake in the outcome of this decision or topic for you might conflict with the decision that you make. PRAY
p.s. let your friend know that you posted her name on the internet. Give her that courtesy. It does come up under Google search.

Bubbles95 · Mar 16, 2009, 01:36 PM

I just took all sorts of his name out sorry I didn't know... I'm still oyung... I'm still deciding whether to tell my parents. In fact I just might... ill let you guys know how it goes. Thanks:)

adam_89 · Mar 16, 2009, 01:38 PM

Please do let us know!

Bubbles95 · Mar 16, 2009, 01:46 PM

I will o and if its any better my big brother knows and I can talk to him also he is 16... two and a half years older but I don't know I would rather talk to an adult and when they get home I will talk to them and let you no... look for what I reply around eight or eight thirtyish okay?

Curlyben · Mar 16, 2009, 01:50 PM

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