[Shorn9]

I saw this girl in school today and wanted to ask her out or just get her name/number. I don't really know her but I think she is really beautifull and would like to know her more. I actually saw her at the library. The only thing is, I just could not think of something to say to her inorder to initiate a conversation. I really need help from you all. Can anyone give me some ideas on how to ask her out or initiate a conversation. Oh, she also doesn't know me. I need help before I loose this girl... forever :confused:

[Clough]

Hi, Shorn9!

You say that you saw her at the library. Do you know why she was there and what she might have been trying to find?

If you know why she was there and what she was trying to find, it might lead to a way to strike up a conversation with her.

Thanks!

[margdav86]

Hi shorn9, it sounds like you really have the hots for this girl. Well, it's a good thing that you guys go to the same school, because you would be burning your chances a little bit by diving straight into the "what's your name, what's your number" deal... girls usually don't like that because, well, it's really overdone these days (especially if she's beautiful). I would suggest starting by making her notice you... next time you see her at school, give her a biig smile!

Next, a good way to "approach" someone at, let's say, at the library is to offer some coffee, or some water( "Hi..I've noticed you've been in here or a while, I was about to get myself some coffee, would you like a cup?") Afterwards, don't stick around and try to force small-talk.. otherwise, the gesture won't seem genuine. Next time you run into her, you can just say Hi.. compliment her on something, ask her what nationality she is (You're very pretty, what nationality are you?)... or, if you're feeling extra spicey, ask her if she'd like to grab lunch with you. If she says no, don't sweat it (or at least don't look like you are). If she says yes, you can go from there and strike a conversation about her interests, where she's from, and so forth. Remember to look her straight in the eyes when she's talking, and smile a lot!

Good luck!

[R-J-S-InLove]

Hi...
Why not try and find a way to help her in something... I mean if she wants something from the library or needs help in some other thing, by what you said it looks like she's new in your school...

Be a thorough gentleman in whatever you do and please Don't over do anything...

To win a girl you should never run after them, you must make them notice you

Also once you strike a conversation make it short and sweet, do more of listening than talking...

All The Best!!

[talaniman]

Go talk to her, with all the females you have fallen for the last 6 months, you should be comfortable introducing yourself, and starting a conversation.

[Romefalls19]

Nice one Tal, communication with women isn't that hard, a simple "hello" and "how are you" should suffice.