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    Notradomas mike Posts: 7, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 11, 2009, 07:59 PM
    She's doesn't seem happy.
    Well, I have a girlfriend and we've been going out for about 2 weeks now and I really like her, but for some reason it feels like were drifting apart. She tells me she's glad were together but she doesn't seem like she's happy at all. What should I do?
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    Mar 11, 2009, 08:01 PM

    Relax.
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    Mar 11, 2009, 08:01 PM
    Hi Mike, well to be quite honest, I think 2 weeks is a little to early to be unhappy in a relationship. Have you tried talking to her about it?
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    Mar 11, 2009, 08:04 PM

    How long have you known her? I hope it wasn't for only 2 weeks.
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    Mar 11, 2009, 08:05 PM

    Well, when I ask her if she's happy or how will I know if she's happy she says "you have to find out."
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    Mar 11, 2009, 08:05 PM
    I've known her for about a year
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    Mar 11, 2009, 08:10 PM
    What does that even mean? You will have to find out? Sounds like mindgames to me. All I know is that in the beginng of a relationship, there is that newness, excitement, and curiousity of getting to know that person, not "you will have to find out".
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    Mar 11, 2009, 08:11 PM

    She's not being very direct with you because right now the two of you should be having fun not problems and since you known her for a year you should know if something is bothering her but than again it could just be all in your head.

    Outside of your relationship is she having any problems?
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    Mar 11, 2009, 08:13 PM

    Out of curiousity why do you believe she isn't happy?
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    Mar 11, 2009, 08:23 PM

    Relax and stop being so anxious. She will definitely pick up on that and you will come across as a little puppy dog.

    Just be yourself and enjoy the ride of getting to know each other on this new level.
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    Mar 12, 2009, 06:16 AM

    2 weeks isn't even long enough to classify this thing as a relationship. It isn't even long enough to call her your "girlfriend." Aren't you two just "dating" right now. You are in the "get to know eachother" phase, beyond friendship.
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    Mar 12, 2009, 06:29 AM

    This isn't a relationship, this is the trial period and it doesn't sound like it's working. You also seem way to insecure, no body likes to be asked every minute "are you happy we are together" "do you like me" and that stuff
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    Mar 12, 2009, 07:28 AM

    Focus on the fun of getting to know each other.

    What do you expect after only 2 weeks? Should she be falling all over you and can't get enough?

    Relax guy and have a good time and make sure she does to.

    Whether she says it or not, if she keeps going out with you, that's enough for now.
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