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    Mar 9, 2009, 08:23 PM
    Torn between 2 lives
    I have been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We live together in LA and I'm originally from santa cruz. We have lived together for 6 months and I love him but I feel like I am no longer IN love with him. I have had feelings for my ex since we broke up and it hasn't gone away. I have cheated on my current boyfriend with my ex a few different times. I know my ex loves me but I don't know if we will get back together. How do I end it with my boyfriend and try to fix things with my ex?
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    Mar 9, 2009, 08:28 PM

    Well.. you end it with your boyfriend and try to fix things with your ex.

    You tell him it's over, what other advice do you need?

    I just want to say that you should do this sooner rather than later, continuing to hurt your current partner like this is cruel.
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    Mar 9, 2009, 08:57 PM

    Yep you end it with your current BF before you hurt him any more. You obviously don't respect him enough if your willing to cheat on him.
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    Mar 9, 2009, 09:01 PM

    How about leaving them both alone, until you get your own head together? Your actually cheating on them both, and yourself.
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    Mar 9, 2009, 09:43 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    How about leaving them both alone, until you get your own head together? Your actually cheating on them both, and yourself.
    You won't realise what your doing to yourself until it's all over..
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    Mar 10, 2009, 06:22 AM

    End it and try being alone for awhile so you can stop toying with other peoples feelings.
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    Mar 10, 2009, 07:09 AM

    Do you even know if your ex likes you? Put this in perspective for a minute: Your ex willingly has sex with you, when he knows you are also having sex with another guy. Now, if it was me, the ONLY reason I would do this is because I could... in other words, if I can get the milk for free, why would I buy the cow (shameless Rome plug)? If I truly loved someone and wanted to get back with them, the LAST thing I would be able to do is have sex with them WHILE they are in a ROMANTIC relationship with another person..

    Just food for thought.
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