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    Justwantfair Posts: 3,422, Reputation: 944
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    #261

    Mar 9, 2009, 01:52 PM

    I didn't mean to get everyone all bummed.

    It is ALL TOO common, it is painful that anyone could do that to someone else and worse that some people feel like they deserve that kind of treatment.

    I really appreciate everyone jumping in, I really hope that with volume one of us hits that right chord and it makes sense why she needs away now.
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    #262

    Mar 9, 2009, 01:54 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    I know - and I think a lot of women have experienced some type of abuse in their lifetime so this is particularly painful to read.

    When I worked in a matrimonial practice I was shocked at the amount of abuse out there - everything, including sexual abuse, often at the hands of the person who "loves" you the most.

    Shudder.

    (And I'm crying right along with you.)
    So many people don't know what goes on behind closed doors. Everything seems real fine in the outside world, but they don't know how many woman are scared to open their mouths in public, for fear of getting the ever living hell beaten out of them when they get home. They also don't know the threats that have been made towards these women if they do say something. Trust me I know.

    Big Hugs Jude!
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    #263

    Mar 9, 2009, 01:56 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Thanks - it's about stopping the cycle, not beating up one abuser.

    I appreciate the kind words on this sad, troubling topic.
    That is the best way to handle it and in the end empowers the woman which now I'm sure is lacking, also the mature way...
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    #264

    Mar 9, 2009, 01:57 PM

    I'm going to call our Momma, kids! Any messages for her? :D
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    Mar 9, 2009, 01:59 PM

    Judy if you will notice, I was not recommending something like that, just saying that women beaters are scum and deserve a good beating(no matter if its legal or not). Ofc I also think they deserve some time in jail and recommend that as the way to go. As this isn't her thread and as we are just all idly chatting I didn't see harm in throwing that out their :)

    Basically id like to see him in jail, but I would also hope he gets hospitalized from some terrible "accident"
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    #266

    Mar 9, 2009, 02:00 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Justwantfair View Post
    What Adam... :D

    You remembered you love me today???
    Hee hee, he still loves you... I'm sure.
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    #267

    Mar 9, 2009, 02:03 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by starbuck8 View Post
    I'm going to call our Momma, kids! Any messages for her? :D
    Tell her "guess what? Stringer loves ya!"
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    #268

    Mar 9, 2009, 02:04 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Stringer View Post
    Tell her "guess what? Stringer loves ya!"
    Will do! Just getting ready to dial! Hope she's up, and feeling all right tonight.
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    #269

    Mar 9, 2009, 02:13 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by starbuck8 View Post
    Will do! Just gettin ready to dial! Hope she's up, and feelin alright tonight.
    Thanks hon, I know that she is doing a little better but really worry for her...

    Be passionate when you tell her..
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    #270

    Mar 9, 2009, 02:19 PM

    Thanks Starby.. sorry for the delay. They had me on lock-down for a while there.

    Anyone want to trade a soup for an envelope?
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    #271

    Mar 9, 2009, 02:34 PM

    DrJ...

    Don't know what the soup for an envelope exchange is... guess I haven't been incarcerated long enough yet.

    Like the new cropped photo, I take it you found another "lucky" lady. :D
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    #272

    Mar 9, 2009, 03:19 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Stringer View Post
    Thanks hon, I know that she is doing a little better but really worry for her....

    Be passionate when you tell her....!
    On the phone with Momma... will update you! Laughing... crying... cursing... lol... LOL! Will update you!

    Edit:: Did I repeat myself? Can't talk on the phone and type or think... haha!
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    #273

    Mar 9, 2009, 03:26 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by starbuck8 View Post
    On the phone with Momma.....will update you! Laughing...crying...cursing...lol....LOL! Will update you!

    Edit:: Did I repeat myself? Can't talk on the phone and type or think...haha!
    Great... I'm waiting.
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    #274

    Mar 9, 2009, 04:04 PM

    Need another laugh?

    Daily Email Newsletter - Funniest Video of the Day

    How about some more?

    http://www.funnieststuff.net/viewmovie.php?id=1145
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    #275

    Mar 9, 2009, 04:20 PM

    We are talking about playing marbles now... lol
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    #276

    Mar 9, 2009, 04:30 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by starbuck8 View Post
    We are talkin about playin marbles now...lol
    Marbles?. K
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    #277

    Mar 9, 2009, 04:42 PM

    You can't play marbles in jail. You can play cards in jail, or put puzzles together, or play dominos or just watch the boob tube but then everyone has to vote on what station or show to watch!

    Ok, so when do we get fed around here? I've been reading about this so-called jail and so far I haven't seen any grub!

    And I don't need an envelope for your soup. I need a bag of potato chips. Anybody want to trade a soda for a bag of chips?
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    #278

    Mar 9, 2009, 04:44 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Justwantfair View Post
    DrJ....

    Don't know what the soup for an envelope exchange is... guess I haven't been incarcerated long enough yet.

    Like the new cropped photo, I take it you found another "lucky" lady. :D

    Ummm... wait... I uhh.. haven't been... incarcerated either??

    (anyone buying that?)

    OK, OK... well, you don't really have money but can buy commissary (items to have while incarcerated... soups, coffee, envelopes, shower shoes, etc) to use yourself or barter, trade, or gamble with.

    ... or so I heard once.


    And yes, I did... apparently she knew how to play her cards right ;)
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    Mar 9, 2009, 04:45 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by twinkiedooter View Post

    Ok, so when do we get fed around here? I've been reading about this so-called jail and so far I haven't seen any grub!!

    And I don't need an envelope for your soup. I need a bag of potato chips. Anybody wanna trade a soda for a bag of chips?
    Here you go Twinkie... :cool:

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    Mar 9, 2009, 05:10 PM

    Friend dearheart just what kind of chips are they? They look somehow different from what I'm used to eating?

    What kind of soda do you want as a trade? I've got one of everything in this cell I'm in right now.

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