[ay143md09]

I lived with my boyfriend and his friend, his friend kicked me out, and it was so stupid why he did, it just didn't make sense at all. So my boyfriend went to Missouri for the weekend with his friend that he lives with and before he went things were perfect we weren't fighting or anything and then he comes back on Sunday that Tuesday he says he needs time to think. I don't understand because nothing was wrong at all, our relationship was so perfect. But when I think about it, it all semms to aim down to his friend on why everything is happening. But he always texts me before he goes to bed and says good night. But lastnight I did a really bad thing and I went and spied on him, I needed to see what was really happening. So I text his friend while I was spying and said that I didn't do anything to him so why are you being like this to me. He made my boyfriend text me telling me to leave his friend out of it. But lastnight he was with his two friends outside having a fire, they made my boyfriend call a girl to come over, and his friend that he lives with said you might want to take down her pictures, well my boyfriend didn't say anything, they left to get wood so I hurry and went inside to see if my pictures were taken down and they weren't I really love him and it feels like people are trying to push him away from me. Can someone help me please? My heart is braking :confused:

[Bubbles95]

Okay... if it wasn't for his friends... everything would be all normal and all right? Well, anyway, you don't have to worry on him acting this way because of th the way HE himself is feeling. It's nothing against him... just his friends, so talk to him, let him know his friends are dragging you two apart. If he understands... maybe he'll do something about it. If he doesn't do anything and maybe seems like he doesn't care... then that just means he cares about his friends more than he does you and he picked them over you. That's where you have to decide what to do with that situation. YOU have to decide... is that what I really want? Do I really deserve or need this? But then again... you shouldn't have been spying... you should trust your boyfriend enough not to do that.

[liz28]

Don't blame your boyfriend friends blame him. If he can't think on his own than your better off without him. I don't understand why you got kick out and your boyfriend didn't put out a fight for you or stood by you and left you when you got toss. Seems like his loyalty isn't to you.

Time to start moving on and starting a life without him because actions speak louder than words and his actions is giving you all the answers you want. Your feelings for him is deeper than anything he feels towards you. Sorry to say this but it's time to say goodbye and go your own way because the fork as been stuck in it and now it's done and over with.