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Careful07 · Feb 10, 2009, 01:51 AM

Thank you all so much, I'm taking the steps to end this, as of tomorrow my number will be changed and I've let him know that this situation isn't for me, he tried to convince me otherwise, I know it's for his own selfish reasons, it is hard, but I'm doing my best...

HistorianChick · Feb 10, 2009, 06:02 AM

Good. You can do this. We're here if you need the support.

Jake2008 · Feb 10, 2009, 09:23 AM

Good for you!

As time passes, stay strong, and this will get easier. Before you know it, you'll realize that it was the best decision you could have made.

Alty · Feb 10, 2009, 09:30 AM

Bravo, good for you. It's a tough road but so worth it. We're here if you need to talk.

catrinalyne · Feb 10, 2009, 08:32 PM

You've got to be strong and pick up the pieces of your life and move on. It's hard to just walk away but you have to realize he's not yours and will never be yours. If he's been seeing you this long and hasn't left his wife yet then he will never leave her. Sometimes reality hurts but you have to move on. I wish you the best of luck!

startover22 · Feb 10, 2009, 08:58 PM

Originally Posted by Careful07

Thank you all so much, I'm taking the steps to end this, as of tomorrow my number will be changed and I've let him know that this situation isn't for me, he tried to convince me otherwise, I know it's for his own selfish reasons, it is hard, but I'm doing my best....

YOu can do it... and guess what? Feeling respect for yourself shows and the strength that comes from doing the right thing is priceless! I am so proud of you for even taking the first step and getting control of your life! NICE job!

Careful07 · Mar 7, 2009, 12:34 AM

Hello all, it's been a little while, but things are good and I'm happy. At first I planned on getting back out on the dating scene after the situation with the MM, but I decided to take some time out for me. Well that probably was the best idea I've had in a long time, I'm feeling much better and it's nice to go hang out with friends and not feel guilty afterwards... Again thanks to you all for your advice, sometimes it takes strangers who aren't biased to give the best advice.

faithful few · Mar 7, 2009, 04:18 AM

It's so easy for everyone to tell you to leave him and that you are doing wrong but they are not hearing what you are saying that you have strong feelings for this man. Although this man is married and this relationship is wrong you also have feelings. Take one day at a time and slowly pull away from him. I suggest some spirituel guidance because getting out of this kind of sin is not as easy as people are making you think it is take it from an exsperienced person that was in it for almost two years

talaniman · Mar 7, 2009, 06:17 AM

Good to hear your taking some positive steps for yourself. Keep it up and love yourself, by being good to yourself. You deserve it.

Much Luck.

HistorianChick · Mar 9, 2009, 06:06 AM

Originally Posted by Careful07

Hello all, it's been a little while, but things are good and I'm happy. At first I planned on getting back out on the dating scene after the situation with the MM, but I decided to take some time out for me. Well that probably was the best idea I've had in a long time, I'm feeling much better and it's nice to go hang out with friends and not feel guilty afterwards....... Again thanks to you all for your advice, sometimes it takes strangers who aren't biased to give the best advice.

See! I knew you could do it!! Good job. Keep it up - we're here if you need us! :)