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    #1341

    Mar 5, 2009, 09:29 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Justwantfair View Post
    Wasn't aiming for text talk really, but significant other. (That is what you call the man you live with, have dated for five years and hasn't put a ring on your finger. :D)
    I know what a catch you are... WHAT is WRONG with this man?? :confused::D
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    #1342

    Mar 5, 2009, 09:31 AM

    It's called commitment phobia... I have done my share of pushing and he has done his share of rebelling... but things are great with us. The ring will come, but I am OK waiting until he is ready (took 6 months of self-help therapy to say that line ;))
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    #1343

    Mar 5, 2009, 09:38 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Justwantfair View Post
    It's called commitment phobia... I have done my share of pushing and he has done his share of rebelling... but things are great with us. The ring will come, but I am ok waiting til he is ready (took 6 mos of self-help therapy to say that line ;))
    Ok... but I guess that I would say that '5 years' is a commitment... isn't it? Sorry, I don't want to probe... :)
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    #1344

    Mar 5, 2009, 09:43 AM

    It's a commitment. We are in a great place. He has never been married and we have had some obsticles that I think he has had a hard time adjusting to.

    Children.
    Custody Case.
    His sister's big wedding in the works.
    My tubes are tied, he wants children of his own.
    My push for marriage.

    He is committed to this relationship, the ring will come.
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    #1345

    Mar 5, 2009, 09:44 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Justwantfair View Post
    Wasn't aiming for text talk really, but significant other. (That is what you call the man you live with, have dated for five years and hasn't put a ring on your finger. :D)
    YouTube - BEYONCE - SINGLE LADIES (PUT A RING ON IT) OFFICIAL VIDEO & LYRICS
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    #1346

    Mar 5, 2009, 09:46 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Justwantfair View Post
    It's a commitment. We are in a great place. He has never been married and we have had some obsticles that I think he has had a hard time adjusting to.

    Children.
    Custody Case.
    His sister's big wedding in the works.
    My tubes are tied, he wants children of his own.
    My push for marriage.

    He is committed to this relationship, the ring will come.
    Thanks Justy, but I was digging and that wasn't nice of me... sorry again hon.
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    #1347

    Mar 5, 2009, 09:48 AM
    OMG, it is SO funny because this song came on the radio last weekend when we were out... I turned to him and said, listen Beyonce made you a song... :D
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    #1348

    Mar 5, 2009, 09:51 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Stringer View Post
    Thanks Justy, but I was digging and that wasn't nice of me...sorry again hon.
    It's quite all right. I pushed real hard for awhile and then I gave myself the mental ultimatum, but in the end I realized that we have a great relationship, that the only thing we have ever really disagreed about was moving the relationship forward, but there are a lot of things that we have going on. In the end, I would rather wait until he is ready, then to push him out of my life.

    Also, my divorce was not even finalized until Jan 2007.
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    #1349

    Mar 5, 2009, 09:52 AM
    Ya... you need a ring
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    #1350

    Mar 5, 2009, 10:00 AM

    Yeah, we get that all the time.

    He actually got laid off last summer and just got back to work at the beginning of the year. I am hoping that once we are back on our feet, he will think about the ring.
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    #1351

    Mar 5, 2009, 10:16 AM
    I didn't mean to kill the room :o
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    #1352

    Mar 5, 2009, 10:24 AM

    How'd you do that... semi automatic, bomb scare, gasses?? Ha ha.

    I have to leave for a while... business appointment... bye...
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    #1353

    Mar 5, 2009, 12:23 PM

    Hey everyone. I don't have time to read up, but I thought I would say hey!
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    #1354

    Mar 5, 2009, 12:30 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by adam_89 View Post
    Hey everyone. I don't have time to read up, but I thought I would say hey!
    I was so funny I thought in my head, hey it Adam, bet he is on to say "Hey, I haven't read the last pages, but HI!!" LOL

    How are you doing today Adam?
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    #1355

    Mar 5, 2009, 12:39 PM

    Well, You guessed it. Lol.

    I am doing good. I am looking for a new job. How are you doing?
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    #1356

    Mar 5, 2009, 12:41 PM

    Haha, was just thinking about doing the same. I am sick of being expected to be psychic at this job.

    Other than that I am just peachy :D
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    #1357

    Mar 5, 2009, 01:25 PM

    They treat me like a b*tch around here at work. They pay me to do office work which his a pain in itself, but they have me go and do labor work half of the time when they need something done. I am just tired of being used. So, I am looking for another job where I know what I am doing when I go to work.
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    #1358

    Mar 5, 2009, 01:33 PM

    I sympathize with being the witch around the office. Ugh.

    I also want to note... I BROKE 1,000!!
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    #1359

    Mar 5, 2009, 02:16 PM

    What do you mean you broke 1000?
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    #1360

    Mar 5, 2009, 02:59 PM

    Well, there hasn't been anyone around for awhile, but see you guys tomorrow.

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