[latoya184]

Well me and my ex have been broken up for a little over a year. We still continued to sleep with each other and we still do. He still takes me out we still act like a couple just without the label of being boyfriend and girlfriend. He says little things to me that makes me think that we will get back together but when I bring it up its always the opposite and I hate asking him because he always turns me down he recently told me that he was sorry for all the stuff he has put me through and its been a lot he even got another girl pregnant and she had his son I also has his daughter he tells me that he's done with her and its just about the kid I don't know what to believe anymore a friend of mine told me he would do the same thing to women say little thing to them to makethem think there's hope just so he can get what he wants from them and I'm starting to think that that's what he's doing to me he told me that we were going to be together forever because I was pissed at him so I started saying things like why when I bring up another guy you get mad but were suposily not together so I can do what I want and if I find out about another girl I'm pissed and he says we still have strong feelings for each other I love him I recently told him that its something about him and I just can't let him go he's the same way if were mad at each other we always find a way to come back together all the time I just don't know what to do please help

[MiSSsy111222]

You need to make a decision. These are the options I think you have

1) keep sleeping with him, let him have his cake and eat it. In a few weeks/months/years you are forced to let go once he decides to have someone else. He will reject you for good.

2) you can let go now he is an EX and he wants to stay that way. You can move on and find someone who want all of you. Not just your body.

Your choice :)

[adam_89]

I agree with MiSSsy there. He probably just wants to use ou right now for the sex. He could be telling a lot of other girls the same thing he is telling you. He really don't know how to keep his penis in his pants anyway, because he does have 2 kids with 2 different women now. That is no offense to anyone.

May I ask how old you and he are?

If you are find with the place you are in right now, then keep it with that, forget about labels, and just go with it.

[talaniman]

While he uses you for sex, and a good time, he prevents you from having your own life without him in it, by filling you with false hope. He probably tells the other female the same thing, no doubt, and will find someone else to BS also.

Get child support, and get your own life with out him in it.

Stop having sex!!! That would be a good start, as your only giving him the cow free with no strings attached.