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    ochado Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 27, 2009, 06:19 PM
    How do I get her back?
    Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a while and it was going great, we have a fight here and there but nothing big. We both told each other we loved each other and really did mean it. So then one Wednesday we got into a kind of big fight and she got really mad at me. It went throughout the weekend she wasn't to happy with me. Then Saturday night she says I think we need to take a break. So we talked about it and she said she needs some time to herself and to think about things. So we started takeing a break . The next day she says she really misses me and loves me and made a mistake and wants to get back together soon but not right now. She just wants to take a little bit of time. So time went by and I asked her what she thought about getting back together and she said I don't know it depends and left it at that. I'm pretty sure she still feels the same way about me and everything, and I still feel the same way about her nothing has changed for me.

    Now about o month has gone by and one of the things she said is we will see after my season is over .Now the season is over and I really want her back,but I'm not sure how.I really want her back.

    How do I ask her for a second chance?

    What should I do to get her back?

    How do I bring it up then slid in the question about dating again?

    I'm just not sure just how to word it,if you could help this would be great.

    Thanks
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    Nestorian Posts: 978, Reputation: 152
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    Feb 27, 2009, 06:43 PM

    You don't get her back, sorry but this implies very foolish ideas, so first things first be aware of what you say and what it means.

    You don't want her back, you want to be with her... Understand that, If you want her back ,it implies she really doesn't have a choice in the matter, and some girls get a little upset at the idea.

    If you really want to be with her, or give the relationship another go round, take it slow, but let her know you are ready to try. Surprise her with a casual hint that you are going to the movies and want her to come, but try to make it a like a group of mutual friends or something, that way it's chill you know. Then again, maybe just ask her to go see a movie. "He's just not that into you" seems to be all the rage, but I've not seen it yet.

    But, other than that, let her go her own pace. Don't bug her too much. Other then that, your guess is as good as mine brother.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Feb 28, 2009, 12:18 PM

    I wouldn't give her the time of day, and can't see why you would let yourself be treated this way.

    Ain't that much love in the world for me to want to be with someone who has no time for me.

    She has been feeding you hogwash.

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