[I need advice]

For those of you who have answered my previous question, here is a little update.

I have been broken up with my boyfriend of over a year for almost a month now. I hadn't spoken to him, and gave him all the space needed. Something came over me last week and I just had to speak to him, ask him if he wanted to go out for a drink. He said sure, and we saw each other for the first time yesteday. There was no awkwardness. I went in yesterday with no expectations at all. Because I had to leave early, we couldn't watch a movie we both planned on seeing. He told me we'd see it next week...

I don't know what's going on, my friend says, he's doing the same thing as when you dated. He's seeing you, but with no strings attatched. I have no expectations, and I am truly living everyday. I am not hoping for anything and I am not adiment about getting back together with him. It would be great if we got back, but if not then that's OK too.

I'm confused.

Should we continue our weekly dates?:confused:

[chrissymarie]

No more dates. Your going to get used.

I'm doing the same thing with my ex. We were going on dates and then we started having sex again and calling each other everyday and I just felt like we were back together until one day he didn't contact me at all when we had plans and didn't show either. Then I got mad and questioned him about it and he said... "So what! It's not like were back together..."

He was just using me to have all the fun he got to enjoy when we were in a committed relationship. Don't lie to yourself girl. You know you want to get back together. He may just be using you. Why risk that?

Just ask him what his intentions are... if he sayd he wants to work towards getting back together then go for it... if he says he just wants to be friends and keep hanging out... sorry but he's just using you. Be smart and don't let yourself be fooled.

[neverme]

Chrissy's right, this is going to blow up in your face. Stay away. An ex means you Don't go on dates with them!