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    falloutgirl Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 23, 2009, 09:47 PM
    Friends with benefits
    I'm an older woman and falling for a younger guy. We spend a lot of time together and he told me he likes to spend time w/me but he's embarrass to be seen w/me 'cause of our age difference. How am I'm suppose to take that? :confused:
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    Feb 23, 2009, 09:52 PM
    You should not be with anyone who is embarrassed to be seen with you.
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    Feb 23, 2009, 10:07 PM

    I think I may need more info on this...

    How old are the two of you? What's the background? How'd you meet, do you guys have jobs? How's the maturity level, etc?
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    Feb 24, 2009, 07:35 AM

    Your supposed to take it as an insult the way it was intended.
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    Feb 24, 2009, 07:37 AM

    how am I'm suppose to take that?
    He's embarrassed to be seen with you. That's it. There is no other way to take it. You deserve better.

    How old are the two of you? How much younger is he?
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    Feb 24, 2009, 07:44 AM

    I bet this dude is using you. Do you buy him a ton of stuff?

    Every young guy I know that has dated an older woman takes advantage of them.

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