[Happywoman]

Good eveing men! Happy Valentines Day.
The details are my ex boyfriend contacted me 2 weeks ago and we im'd and emailed. He has a girlfriend. He invited me to meet him for dinner and we met last night. Initially when he contacted me he said he was going through email account and found my email so added me.
The deal is he has girlfriend ( her and her daughter live w/him) and they have had bad relatiosnhip for 6 months now, they fight all the time. Her daughter is from a prior relationship. He said they fight everyday and they will have nowhere to go if he kicks them out.
Our time together last night went very good. Prior to us meeting I asked if she knew he was meeting me and he said no, he told her old friend. I told him felt weird to me, he offered to tell her and asked if id feel better. I said yes but decision is his. Wel he didn't tell her, he said would just give them more to fight about.
LAst night he admitted hed been wanting to add me and finally did. Him and I broke up almost 3 yrs ago. We were in contact on and off for 6 months after break up as friends, about 4 months into he met his now girlfriend and I couldn't be his friend as was too hard for me we were very much in love. I didn't give him a reason just one day asked him not to contact me anymore.
Overall we had great time last night, a bit of flirting and caught up. When we said goodbye we hugged, he said he had a great time, thanks for seeing him,etc... I them got teary eyed and said I wish cirucmstances were not what they are and I wish things didn't happen with us way they had... he agreed, saiud he feels same way, hugged me again and said we will talk soon. I text him when I got home saying I meant what I said when saying goodbye and sorry for crying.
I still have feelings for him. As a guy what are your thoughts? Thanks for reading as I know this was long.
Thanks in advance:-)

[talaniman]

He is living with someone else, and talking to you. That's cheating. Save yourself a lot of misery, and pain, and leave this guy absolutely alone. You may have feelings, but he has a g/f.

Did you ever notice that cheaters are never happy at home??

Don't let him use your feelings for him let you get played, like he is doing with his live-in g/f.

[Lowtax4eva]

I agree, it sounds like he just wants to see you while living with this other girl. I don't believe he wants to dump her but just doesn't because he is worried about where she will live... he just wants you both

Don't waste your time on this guy