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curious1981 · Feb 7, 2009, 05:01 PM

So I went out on a date with a guy I used to date 3 yrs ago. He was an awesome guy when we dated, which was only a few months, but the timing was off. Well 3 yrs later, I have a little boy and I'm currently single... He found me on myspace about a month ago and asked if we could catch up for old times sake. I said SURE! We went out and had the best time ever. It was like we had picked up where we left off in a sense. He expressed that he had wished these past 3 yrs would not have passed us by and in the moment of deep conversation he stopped what he was saying and said that we will just see how things go. I of course agreed because it was only our first date, it was absolutely perfect and I was glad that we both felt the same way.. Very excited to see each other..

Well.. we went out on a Thurs, he called me on Friday to make small talk and asked me out for a get together Saturday night. I said sure I'd love to but as the time got closer for us to go out, my son was just really throwing a fit, he's going through separation anxiety, and so I felt so guilty because I had been away from my son I felt like a lot with work and such and just felt in my heart that it was best to not go out and meet up with him and his buddies. So I told my date that I wasn't able to hang with him and his buddies because I felt I needed to be there for my son and he was totally cool with it! Sooo... He texts me on Monday and we make small talk, he asks me when he can see me again and I told him to just let me know what works for him and I'll see what I can do! He says OK, and HAVE NOT HEARD FROM HIM SINCE.

He said he was going to make plans for us for the weekend and he hasn't called me or anything! I text him and told him to let me know if he still wants to hang out and have not heard a word..

WHAT IS THE DEAL!? I seriously don't have a CLUE!

HELP.:confused:

floridanative · Feb 7, 2009, 05:20 PM

"He's Just Not That Into You"... not to be cliché, but please --- do you really want to 'hang out with him and his buddies?" You deserve better. I think you did exactly the right thing to put your son before "hanging with him and the buddies". Try to get busy with other things, like your son, or hobbies, or work, and forget him. Someone better will come along that will respect you. I know its hard, but you sound mature and responsible. Be strong.

liz28 · Feb 13, 2009, 12:18 PM

There have been times when I was dating and expressed interested in seeing that guy and told him I'd call him to make plans but never did because of schedule. When I'd remember or had time I would give that guy a call to see if he still wanted to hang up and if he we would and if he didn't, well let just say I didn't cry over spilled milk and moved on.

So you never know why and if it's bothering you that much I would give him another call, not text. If you don't get a response after that then let it go and move on. However since your on the dating scene don't put your eggs in one basket and get out there and date. There's nothing wrong with dating more than one guy this only becomes a problem if your in a committed relationship because then it's called cheating unless your in an open relationship.

glimmerchic93 · Feb 13, 2009, 03:18 PM

Don't get too attaché di know how you feel something like that has happened to me multiple times... just keep happy thoughts and don't get the wrong idea think positive... maybe he ran out of minutes on his phone and hasn't been able to get ahold of you... did you ever think of that?? If you find out later on that it was a bad thing or reason I'm sorry!