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    ashton vandever Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 12, 2009, 11:04 AM
    Is my husband gone too far with flirting with other girls?
    My husband started a Facebook after we got married; which, I was 17. This was three years ago. He adds girls that he just meets through me. He started a myspace the other day and put his status as single. He touches and talkes and playes around with other girls. Is he taking it to far or am I just too jelous. I've tried to talk to him about it and he just says I'm trying to control him. It's not that I feel as if he is disrespecting me.
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    Feb 12, 2009, 11:26 AM

    He touches other girls?
    As in sexually?
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    Feb 12, 2009, 11:32 AM
    Sometimes yes, him standing up and she had her legs wrapped around his waist and her arms around his neck. Other times I'm not so shure it feels like it touching there arms. He's slapped there butt before. Not all the time it's sexual, but there has been times.
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    Feb 12, 2009, 11:34 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by ashton vandever View Post
    Sometimes yes, him standing up and she had her legs wrapped around his waist and her arms around his neck. other times i'm not so shure it feels like it touching there arms. He's slapped there butt before. Not all the time it's sexual, but there has been times.
    Why are there ANY girls with their legs wrapped around your husband's waist??

    This is NOT acceptable behavior for a married man.
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    Feb 12, 2009, 11:36 AM

    You are not being jealous. He is totally disrespecting you. You need to divorce this loser and find someone who truly cares about you, because he obviously does not. Good luck.
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    Feb 12, 2009, 11:38 AM

    I am 100% sure if I slapped another girls butt my wife would slap the SHHH out of me then leave me. And if she slapped another guys butt I would leave her. You are married not dating.
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    Feb 12, 2009, 11:47 AM
    Mkay... I might be one of the more tolerant members here concerning a spouse flirting. My love likes to flirt and I'm fine with it. A boy might touch her arm or back when in a bar... fine. Dancing can sometimes push things a little more. I'm OK. I completely trust her, and we just are fine with a little attention given. It works fine with us and we are absolutely true.

    I can flirt with a girl and it goes nowhere past that. Any sexual tension that develops channels into my relationship. We had a great night in the bedroom last week when shed been out, hit on, flirted with, and then she came home to me. Fine.

    All that said... he's really pushing the line, in my opinion... but its your opinion that should count.

    Most relationships don't have perfect overlap. There are areas of compromise and areas where one member will need to hold firm.

    How is he with you? How is the relationship outside of this? Is he attentive? Present? Issues?
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