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    maria16 Posts: 65, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 3, 2009, 07:13 PM
    Did he stand me up?
    So we've been friends for about three months.
    He called to ask me out on 'dates' a few times.We're both shy, but seem to like each other.
    We had to reschedule recently, and talked about meeting up yesterday,but I never heard from him, and I didn't want to call because I already felt like I had been coming on too strong.
    What should I do?? We never had set plans but it still feels like I was stood up-
    Should I wait it out and see if he contacts me or should I say something?
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    Feb 3, 2009, 09:41 PM

    Say somethinG! Just call to see what had happen.. never hurts... and if he does it again and doesn't have a good excuse just drop it. Because apperently he is to busy for you! And you want someone you can count on being there for you!! If you really want him. Then go for it..
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    maria16 Posts: 65, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 7, 2009, 08:29 AM

    OK so he called to apologize and said he really wants to see me but his work load the next week is very busy, going out of town for a bit, then will have time.
    That's fine but I'm a bit disappointed. I'm moving on and am busy on my end as well... but I can never tell if I should really believe someone when they say they are too busy or if that simply means he doesn't care enough to make time for me.
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    Feb 7, 2009, 08:45 AM

    Go with your gut.

    What do you really feel it is?

    If you can listen to yourself you won't go wrong.
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    Feb 7, 2009, 08:39 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by maria16 View Post
    ok so he called to apologize and said he really wants to see me but his work load the next week is very busy, going out of town for a bit, then will have time.
    that's fine but i'm a bit disappointed. i'm moving on and am busy on my end as well...but i can never tell if i should really believe someone when they say they are too busy or if that simply means he doesn't care enough to make time for me.
    Yes. Go with your gut. And your right that if he doesn't make time for you then he might not care. But he does have a job. And you just met so you have to cut sum slack you know. And you have a job as well and your busy so you can't expect for you to just have a chance right then and there you know. If you really want this then it will deff. Work out you know!! Just give it time.. everyone deserves a second chance. Just make just it doesn't get to out of hand and a habit. You know
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