[katliz]

I love this guy named jake and we flirted a lot at school. We even held hands and kissed. Then over the weekend he talked to this girl and kissed her and now they are going out. I knew him for three months and he sees this girl for an hour and asked her out which hurt me. And now he thinks I am mad at him and I think he is mad at me and he wants me to get over the situation but I can't. Also he still tries to flirt with me. Does he still care about me? Should I try to get over him?

[spitvenom]

Think about it he is dating this girl and also flirting with you. If you were dating him he would probably flirt with a different girl. Forget him.

[Nestorian]

Humm, question is do you give up on yourself?

How much do you love him and what is love?

[chrissymarie]

Get over him he's a player and he played you.

[roxypox]

Yeah hun, he seems like a player! And he doesn't want you to be mad at him... who wants people to be mad at them? be mad. And don't flirt back.

But don't linger on it too long. Take a little time to be mad, and then heal and move on! He's not worth your time!

There are better guys out there and from your post I'm guessing that the two of you are young... so there is plenty of time to fall in love with someone at a later date. Just take care of yourself now and get over it! ;)

[liz28]

I think your feelings for him is misplaced. Why do you love him because love is a strong word to use towards someone?

It sounds like he was messing around with you without a commitment or promise of a relationship and if anything the two of you was friends that crossed the lines a few times, and that can complicate things and give false signals.

Now he likes someone and your mad at him because he isn't giving you want you want well you know what move on. Life is too short and tomorrow isn't promise. Find someone that wants to be with you and capable to commit to you.
And if you choose to stay friends with him know your bondaries and keep your feelings under control.

[Aprilmay12]

This guy seems like a tool. It sounds to me like he didn't even have the balls to be honest with you. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. Imagine if you were the other girl, he would be dating you but also be flirting with other girls. If you keep trying to have something with him you may get your heart broken. Unfortunately, there are many guys like this who may be charming and attractive but who also play games. You deserve someone better, keep looking.

[beach_boys]

Okay who said that he like you? Has he ever said that?
When he can leave you for another chic, what says that he won't do it again. You will only end up hurt. You know you said you know him for 3 months, Im afraid that isn't enough.