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    Feb 5, 2009, 02:57 PM
    Is It Wrong For Me To Think About Her This Way?
    Ive been going out with this girl online for a while now. And I've never really met her in person because she lives on the other side of the country. And well lately I've been having thoughts about her that are sort of sexual, and I feel bad about thinking about her like that.
    :confused:
    Is it wrong for me to think of her like this?
    I'd appreciate anyone's opinion on this!
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    Feb 5, 2009, 02:59 PM
    Well most of the time when you are with someone you get sexual feelings for that person, it just sucks for you that your half way across the country.
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    Feb 5, 2009, 02:59 PM

    I don't think it is wrong. It seems normal to me.
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    Feb 5, 2009, 03:02 PM

    I know but I constantly feel bad about it.
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    Feb 5, 2009, 03:03 PM
    Why, how old are you?
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    Feb 5, 2009, 03:05 PM

    I just turned 17 a month ago.
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    Feb 5, 2009, 03:27 PM

    Making some one you don't know is a fantasy and we all have them, that's normal.

    What I have a problem with is trying to figure out what you mean by:"Ive been going out with this girl online for a while now. And Ive never really met her in person because she lives on the other side of the country"!!

    Where do you go?? Cyberspace?!
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    Feb 5, 2009, 03:32 PM

    We met on a website called interpals. We had been talking for a couple months and we started to like each other. So we decided to go out online even though we wouldn't be able to meet anytime soon.
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    Feb 5, 2009, 03:50 PM

    So fantasy is all you have, which in this case is normal, I think!
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    Feb 5, 2009, 03:55 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    So fantasy is all you have, which in this case is normal, I think!
    Thanks for the advice I really appreciate it
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    Feb 5, 2009, 07:03 PM

    Ya I agree with what's been said, we all fantasize... *looks off dreamily* lol
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    Feb 5, 2009, 07:11 PM

    All normal on this front, I remember those AOL chat rooms when I was growing up.. Ahhhh

    ::closes eyes and a relapse of memories flows through::
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    Feb 15, 2009, 07:11 PM

    I'm also in an online relationship... and dur, thinking all those things ARE totally natural, as long as u don't cheat on her, or force her to do some of the things in your... head... ahem. >_>
    got to be patient, and yeah, it does TOTALLY stink that u guys are FAR away from one another. Well, it's all worth it if u guys stick with one another till the end.
    guud luck =]
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