[disenchanted_lullabye]

OK, here's my problem.

In January, I met this guy and liked him from the start. I had 5th period w/ him and every day I liked him more and more, and over time he began to really mean a lot to me. He was always really nice and he knew I liked him but never said he liked me back. The year ended and he graduated, but we kept in touch through AIM and on the phone through the summer.

Now I've only talked to him twice since the school year started and I still can't get over him. The latter of the times we talked was a few nights ago, and he was upset because his girlfreind had just broken up with him. I tried to make him feel better and he said that I was cheering him up, and that he missed talking to me, but I don't know if he really meant that. I want to call him but I don't know if he wants to talk to me. I mean, if he did want to talk he wouldve called me right? If he still has my number.

My point here is I want to call him and talk to him because I just can't make myself get over him, but I don't think I mean a thing to him. So should I call him or not? As you can see, I've twisted my widdle mind over this for months. And I just don't know what to do anymore.

[SMSM.Mahdavi]

If you leave him he will call you.this is the men style of communication.
Bye

[Boo Radley]

If you would say you were fit just go for him he obverisly like you guy fined it hard to tel others how they feel

[disenchanted_lullabye]

Thanks for the advice, guys! :)

[SMSM.Mahdavi]

I am a psychiatrist. I did not want to kid.what ihad mentioned was a truth.

[vmatthews]

I say go for it, your friends right? And you have a history! Besides, you can always call just to see how he is doing!

[missqueenb]

Hello dear heart!

Well, I don't know about you but I wouldn't waste any hopes of becoming romantically envolved with a man, (friends or not) that calls you or when you call him he is talking about how he's hurting over his girlfriend... I am assuming that he at least called her his ex? Sweety, there is a great and probable chance that the two of them will eventually hook back up, and he will no longer think of you... he'll be all wraped up in her. I can't tell you what to do, but if you continue to pursue this relationship, don't go into it looking for something deep... you'll only get hurt. You can do better than him, hell, keep him as just a friend, because a man on the rebound carries more baggage than any neighborhood bum! And since you seem like the type of female ( like me) that is completely into the person she is dating, take your feelings, while they are still intact and find someone fresh!! Like I stated in the subject, he's a done deal!. please be careful, cause it is harder to mend a broken heart once your feelings are so strongly involved... missqueenb