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GoldFishy · Feb 1, 2009, 10:44 PM

Ok, well this goes way back so lease excuse my long post with bad spelling. Anyhow first of in year 7 I met this guy sort of liked him and found out he liked me too. So my friend old and you know how little kiddy crushes go. Soon we just lost interests and pretty much forgot about it.
All through year 8 I started to like him a little, he was really nice in yr 7 gave me a rose on valentines day. Finally year 9 and around the last term he was feeling down so we talked and he mentioned that he still liked me. I liked him and it was so sudden we hugged and he always told he missed me. I must be honest It seemed a little clingy, a few weeks later or even days I started to wonder if this was meant to happen and I freaked out and told him I wasn't sure about it and ended it... we have always been friends too, pretty close his like my only guy friend and now since I've had a lot of time to think I regret it so so much. His been so nice about it, we are still friends he even let me borrow a bunch of his books, now I miss his hugs and been able to talk with him. I'm not sure how he'll respond if I say anything he is easy to upset... I don't know:/ thanks for reading and if you comment thanks too.
Sorry it's so long.

DJ28 · Feb 1, 2009, 10:51 PM

OK so it looks like you guys were together for 9 years? Am I right about that? I would say move on, you need to get over him because to me it seems like all this will just keep happening over and over again. Probably in a week if you guys got back together the same thing would happen and you would be in the same place as you are now. If you want to be friends and can handle that I would say do that, but if you can't then just totally end it. But definitely don't try to start another relationship with him.

GoldFishy · Feb 1, 2009, 10:53 PM

Originally Posted by DJ28

ok so it looks like you guys were together for 9 years? am i right about that? I would say move on, u need to get over him because to me it seems like all this will jsut keep happening over and over again. probably in a week if you guys got back together the same thing would happen and you would be in the same place as you are now. if you want to be friends and can handle that i would say do that, but if you can't then just totally end it. but definitely dont try to start another relationship with him.

Whoops I'm in year 9, its been like 3 years but the relationship lasted for a little over a month, my bad did make that to clear :s
Thanks for the advice, I spose that could/would happen.

DJ28 · Feb 1, 2009, 10:56 PM

I mean yeah he might be a nice guy and all but what are you really missing him being a nice guy? And why did you end it anyway? I mean is the only reason you want to be with him again is just because he's a nice guy. I think you need time to figure this one out and figure why you even left him. Because it seems like your letting your feelings cloud the whole situation.