[ashes1123]

I have a boyfriend for the past one year.We had sex after six months we started going around.. We found it exciting and we do it whenever we can. But still I sometimes feel that one should have sex only after marriage.Is sex and marriage related? Cos none of my friends have had sex before marriage. And if I get married to someone else,will he be able to find out that I had sex before?

[angeliken]

Generally, girls bleed the first time they encounter sexual intercourse with a partner. Then and on, it stops. Certainly, a guy you assume to marry will know exactly that you have had sex before from a different person but that doesn't matter. If a guy you marries truly loves you then and now he will accept for whatever it is that you were before he met you. Sex may come before or after marriage. It is truly satisfying to engage in sex if two persons both really love each other.

[Fr_Chuck]

Sex is and can be many things, and a lot has to do with your social and religious beliefs.

It is the commentment and the closeness, the emotional ties that should go along with it.