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    guyinhelp Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 27, 2009, 09:51 PM
    Crush on girl
    So I am new to a school and everything went fine made friends and stuff. But I met this girl and stuff and I have a giant crush on her and I know she has a crush on me. On the first and second day it was all good but now I can only seem to get small talk I odnt know why I am a shy person and stuff and with new girls I met that a treat as friends I have giant talks but not with her sonce the 3rd and 4 day I just talked to her through msn and its good but I worry a lot and she is very beautiful and sweet. But I Find it hard to get like-notsmall talk with her since the 3 day tomorrow would be my fifth wish me good luck please, I just like her a lot, and when we walk she says something I say something back then I kill myself trying to think of something to say and I feel very bad. On the third and fourth. What can I say or ask that makes her start on a chatting rampage that I love when she looks at me smiling talking to me and I just listen. I know she does tennis but I know nothing about tennis and I already asked her twice about how her classes went. Ill ask her about movies yea her favorite or something like is that good youse I worry a lot cause I don't know why but I can have long convs with girls I don't have a crush on but I just can't with here well at least I did in the first and second day. Please help me!
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    Jan 27, 2009, 10:41 PM

    Try chatting about music, sports, never minds, unless she likes sports, do not what ever you do, Immdiately say "You're Beautiful" or anything like that, you will scare her. Try asking about her friends or books, or scars, or something.
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    Jan 28, 2009, 02:17 PM

    I hate myself I am not good enough she wwas talking to another boy like she did to me. I just hate myself why am I so bad at a conversation. Jesus
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    Jan 28, 2009, 02:32 PM

    Never hate yourself. If she was talking to other guys, maybe she just likes talking. This reflects nothing on you. It is possible for girls to like multiple guys at the same time. Trust me, I know. Try being her friend. Don't worry about how you look when you say things. If she doesn't like you for you, then a relationship would never work. It sounds like you are strung up really tight, just loosen up a little and talk to her. Good LuCk!
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    Jan 28, 2009, 03:51 PM

    OK I started talking to her, in msn and the thing I ask her questions about her tennis clases and stuff, and shed tell me but like me always asking , then I told her about something and she wrote "ahh you told me that" and its been like that for like some time
    I know she is doing homework so maybe it's that, and hmmm god like with girls that keep the conversation its so ing easy!
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    Jan 28, 2009, 05:14 PM
    Omg sweet a friend told me that she has talked a lot about me. Feel way better now. I just like her a lot. She is so beautiful.
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    Jan 28, 2009, 08:40 PM

    I told you, Just relax. And girls do get annoyed when they are busy and guys are being clingy. Just talk to her, but don't suffocate her. Good luck/
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    Jan 29, 2009, 04:44 PM

    Simply look up stuff on tennis, or ask her for info on tennis. People love to show how smart they are! Or find an interest of hers, and start talking on it. Don't worry, I'm exactly the same, just with guys.
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    Jan 30, 2009, 04:18 PM

    Lol you are taking this way to seriously bro. Just go for it, stop worrying - you will never get anywhere if you keep on worrying about what to do - BE YOURSELF. There is no better advice than that.

    If she doesn't like you JUST the way you are - then she isn't the right one for you anyway.

    Good luck

    -Xm8

    P.S.

    And don't do anything stupid like burp/fart in front of her ( I presume you already know that) and whatever you do don't call her beautiful or hot out of the blue. If you must, make sure it has something to do with the subject you're talking about so it doesn't seem strange.
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    Jan 30, 2009, 04:37 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by guyinhelp View Post
    So I am new to a school and everything went fine made friends and stuff. But I met this girl and stuff and I have a giant crush on her and I know she has a crush on me. On the first and second day it was all good but now I can only seem to get small talk I odnt know why I am a shy person n stuff and with new girls I met that a treat as friends I have giant talks but not with her sonce the 3rd and 4 day I just talked to her through msn and its good but I worry a lot and she is very beautiful and sweet. But I Find it hard to get like-notsmall talk with her since the 3 day tomorrow would be my fifth wish me good luck plse, I just like her a lot, and when we walk she says something I say something back then I kill myself trying to think of something to say and I feel very bad. on the third and fourth. What can I say or ask that makes her start on a chatting rampage that I love when she looks at me smiling talking to me and I just listen. I know she does tennis but I know nothing bout tennis and I already asked her twice about how her classes went. Ill ask her bout movies yea her favorite or some thing like is that good youse I worry a lot cause I don't know why but I can have long convs with girls I don't have a crush on but I just can't with here well at least I did in the first and second day. please help me!
    U got to talk to her more or else if u wait u can't do it u have to say what comes to mind or find common intrest;)
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    Jan 30, 2009, 05:17 PM

    Most people do get shy during a crush.
    My suddestion is just to pretend that you know she does like you, look into her eyes aand ask her out. If she doesn't like you, then you'll find someone els. That I will promise.
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    Oct 25, 2011, 06:08 PM
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