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    rebelwife Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 27, 2009, 09:16 AM
    I keep compareing my new husband to my ex.
    I was married for four and a half years and had a son with him, but things didn't work out and I left him. About a year ago I found a really good guy and we just go married in Oct of 08 but I have a problem with comparing him to my ex and I don't want to loose him what can I do?
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    Jan 27, 2009, 11:21 AM

    Are you comparing him in a good way or a bad one? If you're noticing things he does that are better than what your ex used to do, I don't think there's any reason for concern.
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    Jan 27, 2009, 12:00 PM

    Maybe it is time you got some professional counseling to help you through this. Probably should have done it before marriage, but now is not too late.
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