I like this guy. But.

heronk38 · Jan 20, 2009, 05:14 PM

I like this guy. He rides my bus, and he sits behind me. He's always picking on me, and I always let him use my iPod. I recently discovered that almost everyone that knows him thinks he likes this other girl. I really like him, and he is really cute and funny. No one knows I like him, and I don't want anyone that knows me to know, at least not now. I'm not sure I want to go out with him, but I am getting really jealous over a guy that's not even mine. I try to act like I don't care, but I am REALLY jealous. I don't know what I'm asking, but any advice? Please? :confused:

ROLCAM · Jan 20, 2009, 07:04 PM

My dear, jealousy is a curse.
Try your very best to get out of being jealous.
If you persist with it, you are going to be
Miserable for the remainder of your life.

Advise given by a male 78 years old.

liz28 · Jan 20, 2009, 07:46 PM

Right now you've a crush on a guy but let it become your obsession.

I remember having crushes and than becoming upset when I heard they were dating or liked someone else and wondered why it couldn't be me, that's life.

So now your're aware of your feelings so try to get it under control. Your going have many more in your life time.

shamika · Jan 20, 2009, 09:04 PM

Stop pushing him away, if your getting jealous then you really like him. Just think about it this way one person's trash is another person's treasure. You better exchange phone number's and get it over with this is 2009.

heronk38 · Jan 20, 2009, 09:43 PM

But I don't think he likes me back. I'm not the type of person to give my phone number out. Sometimes, when one of his best friends isn't on the bus, I sit in his best friends seat across from him away from everyone else and we talk by ourselves. Because of that, he knows where I live and some things about me. But the problem is, that was only in the beginning of the year, when his friend had football practice after school. Now, I can't talk to him without the girl beside me butting in, or his friend. It frustrates me, and deep down I know I don't really have a chance (don't worry, I'm not being hard on myself, I'm just telling the truth). Ya see I just moved, so I'm new on the bus. Gosh! This is so stressing and I don't know why I'm jealous. It's a first, I think..