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lalalala15 · Jan 18, 2009, 02:13 PM

OK so I really really need some help big time and this is a very long story so I'm going to make as short as I can but still make it to to the point. So we have this big group of friends guys and girls. And one of the girls was calling the guys wayyy too much I mean like 20 times a day! No joke! And now all the guys are pissed at the girls because we're friends with her and we tried to tell her nicely to stop early on but it didn't work. And now me and my other friend want to fix this but the guys are being jerks and just won't do anything and now they won't even answer our calls or texts. But then me and one of the guys were dating and I broke up with him twice so now he's pissed at me. And it's a huge mess!! I have apologized many times and wrote this long text about how big of a jerk I was and how I want to be friends again and stuff but he didn't reply. So all the guys hate the girls and the girls are trying to fix this but its not working and is only getting worse!! PLEASE I NEED HELP BIG BIG BIG BIG TIME!! ANY ADVICE WILL BE WONDERFUL!! HELP! THIS IS A MESS!!

liz28 · Jan 18, 2009, 04:10 PM

This is too much of a mess. Sometimes friendships come sto an end. If your ex, which is one of the guys, doesn't want to talk to you then stop texting him. It only doing more harm than good.

This is too much of a mess to sort out so ove past it and be having with the friend you have because it doesn't seems like this group of guys was really your friends, maybe hang out partners. And you shouldn't have to beg anyone to be your friend.

lalalala15 · Jan 19, 2009, 07:49 AM

I know.. but I can't help but feel like a part of me is missing... what would happen if I tried to confront them in person? Good idea or bad?

450donn · Jan 19, 2009, 08:01 AM

Sounds more like it is time for a new circle of friends.

liz28 · Jan 19, 2009, 08:29 AM

Do you need them to make you whole? If you said yes than you need to work on yourself.

Let is too precious and short for you to worry about things or people that doesn' t want to have anything to do with you.

Also, this is real life and not an espiode of friends. So if your friendship wasn't strong enough from the get go and you have a relationship with a friend, when the relationship ends so does the friendship.

lalalala15 · Jan 19, 2009, 01:10 PM

We were all really good friends from the get go.so one person screwed up our whole friendship.that doesn't mean we weren't good friends to begin with.