[ksnviv]

Dear all,
I am a 17 year old south asian, my dad is 61 and my mom is 47 years... of late my mom befriended a widow she may about the same age as my mom... she is quite attractive for her age.. my mom helped her get a job,. over a period this lady increased her visits to our house and my mom is kind enough to drop her every morning at the office in our car!. one particular day while my mom was dressing to get ready to go to office my father was sitting in the living room with this lady mrs p... she got up and shook her body quite suggestively and dropped her saree( the cloth which covers the body), I watched all this from behind the curtain... she did not notice me!. my father too continued to chat as nothing had happened!. now for the past 6 months my mom is working in another city and she had confided in the lady to have' a look' at how we were doing... we have to go to her house to call up our mom as we do not have the STD facility in our house... often I accompany my father... and I see them staring quite unabashedly at each other despite my presence... once my father was replacing the tyre of our car he was waering a lungi( a cloth which covers the groin)... it so happened this lady mrs p as I will call her came by and statrted to chat to my father... he was sitting in a position in which his genitals were visible!( he wa not wearing any underwear).. and this lady was staring shamelessly at them!. of late my father has become very sympathetic to mrs p as she is a widow... he even accompanies her to the market surreptitously, tells us about conversations with her, and he too ogles her!
The other day my mom came for a brief holiday back home... and asked where my dad was?'''... I told her "he is talking to mrs p"... my exasperated mom said... " has he gone away with her?'''... I wonder whether women have a sixth sense about their spouses?
My pop is a shy man and the last person I expect to commit adultery... also of late he has been stocking aphrodisiacs in his cupboard ever since he met up wit mrs p... my query is there really an affair brewing? What can be done about it?

[starfirefly]

You shold let your mother know and let her take it from there

[Fr_Chuck]

I would tell your dad what you have seen and heard. It is his responsibility to end any affair at that point and time. This is from the view point of my culture of course where affairs are not considered proper.

[zeeniee]

You should sit down and have a good talk to your dad and remind him of what he has right now in his life, and how easy it will be for him to loose everything if he carrys on this way

If your dad does not listen , then I think you should tell your mum what is going on

[talaniman]

Tell your dad what you have seen, and that you will tell your mom.

[yazzed]

The best thing is to have a talk with your father and mother and discuss it. And your familiy should stay away from that mrs p