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    Jan 17, 2009, 07:20 PM
    Why hasn't he proposed?
    I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years, he will bring up marriage, but he has never asked me to marry him. We live together and I know he wants me to be part of his future, but I want a ring! Is that wrong?
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    Jan 17, 2009, 07:28 PM
    I was you until just recently. After almost 3 years my long time boyfriend proposed and we are getting married in June. But, my best friend is now going through the same thing. She has been living with her boyfriend for a year, but he doesn't talk about the future. She heard about a book that says is helping her out called Why hasn't he proposed? Hope this helps you. Also, be patient. If he is the one you are supposed to be with, it will happen. Will look back for updates from you... :)
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    Jan 17, 2009, 07:47 PM

    Why should he, he is living with you, getting sex, most likely to him all of the comforts and all of the benefits and has not had to make that final commitment.
    My grand-dad referred to that as "no reason to buy the cow when the mild is free"

    So you talk, you bring it up and be specific ask him when
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    Jan 17, 2009, 11:15 PM

    Only he knows what's in his mind, so ask him what's his timetable.
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    Jan 17, 2009, 11:18 PM

    Communication is key.

    You two need to be able to talk about these things.

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