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ref1jrh_4_ever · Jan 16, 2009, 10:49 PM

Well about 26 yrs ago my sister passed away before she was born. And since age 14 till now I'm 20 now I have had dreams about her, I DO NOT SLEEP WALK AT ALL, and when I dream about her I walk towards my dorm room window. And just today I went to the school hospital and I had a pass back to class, and I stepped outside the hospital to light a cigarette I noticed that my pass was gone, and my pass was in my lighter pocket and I noticed that my pass was gone and it's a big piece of paper you can't miss it. But I checked on the floor and nowhere it was nit windy at all! and later on that day I was walking out of class and to go light a cigarette and the pass just showed up out of nowhere just back in my pocket, I am not scared but I just want to no I am curious.

Clough · Jan 16, 2009, 11:03 PM

Hi, ref1jrh_4_ever!

Dreaming about your sister might just be something that normal and not connected to the paranormal in any way. I dream about deceased relatives frequently. I also had a sister who died.

Concerning your pass turning up missing and then you finding it again. How big is your lighter pocket, please?

Thanks!

artlady · Jan 16, 2009, 11:16 PM

I love when I dream about my loved ones who are gone from this life.

I get to see them again and sometimes I even wake up and I can smell them,its so beautiful. My father always smelled like old spice,sorry ,I regress.

I would say a prayer for her and thank her for helping you.
She may be a guardian angel for you or it could be another guardian angel.

Embrace it and don't be afraid, it's a gift.

artlady · Jan 16, 2009, 11:19 PM

I love when I dream about my loved ones who are gone from this life.

I get to see them again and sometimes I even wake up and I can smell them,its so beautiful. My father always smelled like old spice,sorry ,I regress.

I would say a prayer for her and thank her for helping you.
She may be a guardian angel for you or it could be another guardian angel.

Embrace it and don't be afraid, it's a gift.

artlady · Jan 16, 2009, 11:21 PM

Now that is creepy I don't know how that happened except to tell you my father was a great prankster. Wow now I'm freaked out

Lol oh my its so my father.. wow

Alder · Jan 23, 2009, 12:43 AM

Maybe she wants you to stop smoking...

Sorry, hope you don't mind my injecting a little humor...

Spirits of those who die before being born are, well, I don't know how to put it into words. They aren't usually so focused. But your sister seems to be an exception. May I suggest that what you are experiencing is real, but you may find it more beneficial (for you and her, and everyone else in your life) to change the language a little. Find different words to describe it. "Haunting" sounds so, well, creepy to me. If there was this very wise and good being out there in the universe, some folks might call her an angel, who wanted to have a lasting relationship with you, be present in your life to guide and protect you, and that being wanted to connect itself to you at a blood and bone, DNA level, it might let itself manifest as a child in a womb. But since its nature is not to live its own human life, it let go of that being before it was born, having done what it needed to forge the connection with you, to become your "kin." So now she is present with you and for you.

An ordinary human spirit who was conceived but died accidentally before being born would not be able to have this kind of powerful, long term presence in your life. She is a very special sort of being. Likewise, there must be something special about you, to have drawn her to you in the first place. Just find a better, deeper way to understand it than in the language of "ghosts" and "hauntings."