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misshim14 · Jan 15, 2009, 05:44 PM

OK. I became good friends with this amazing guy, and I fell really hard for him. I have been hanging out with him a lot, and I love being with him. He had even told me he liked me :D then right before new years his phone got shut off, and he couldn't text me for awhile and still hasn't yet. We haven't even seen each other since then. Plus he barley gets on myspace. And lately I get the vibe he wants nothing to do with me. When we talked about us hanging out, he said maybe, then had to get off myspace, and I haven't talked to him for about 5 days. I like him so much, I have been getting disspointed. I feel depressed. I hate feeling stuck on him because I feel I can't date or like anyone else, because I really want a chance with him. I want to get over him, but I can't. I don't like the way he's making me feel. He's a guy I have never ever found before. Sooo nice, understanding, always makes me laugh, feel beautiful, smile, etc. what should I do? Should I forget about him and move on? Or should I just wait and see what happens?:confused: please help :/

NItEMArE129 · Jan 15, 2009, 05:50 PM

Find what's really going on first. Is he having second thoughts, is he nervous, did you come on too strong? These are all possibilities and they need to be considered. Can you think of anything you might've done?

misshim14 · Jan 15, 2009, 06:01 PM

I don't know how to reply. But I'm doing it through this :]
I didn't really come on to strong though. I just acted like friends. He did the same. He's not the nervous type, he's told me and I have seen that he isn't. But I try to think of possibilities why, but I can't. Except for the fact he might be busy, and can't talk to me.

NItEMArE129 · Jan 15, 2009, 06:08 PM

Give it at least a week. If it's still the same after that, then consider that it's probably not going to work out. If it gets better, than you know that it was probably just stress.

talaniman · Jan 17, 2009, 07:55 PM

Don't stress over someone who is too busy for you. Those are the types of guys you don't fall so hard for, so back off and do other things with other people, and see what he does.

Its pretty obvious you care more than he does, and that's not healthy, nor fair to you. You had better be careful making yourself so needy, and dependent, on a guy like that.

That ain't love, or caring, and sharing, and it sure ain't much fun either.