[lovedrummer87]

Hello I am 21 years old, male, from MI
And I am in a really hard relationship and its kicking my butt I am so scared to be alonei see everyone else happy and enjoying each other it hurts my heart so bad cause I feel as though I have someone but then I don't because I don't ever see her... I worrie so much about it... I love this girl but it doesn't look like it will last.. its kind of like "slow dancing in a burning room" and it's really taking a toll on me.. but I am scared to leave her I just need some help thanks for listing

[ja77]

Hi and welcome to the forum -

Can you please give a little more info into what has been going on so we can see if we can help.

What are the main issues you are having.

Thanks

[Choux]

It is a numbers game, Michigan guy. :)

Find the courage to say HI to five girls a day... ask a girl out to coffee or whatever and start a conversation. Because you are shy, you have to just plough into it... you will gain confidence very quickly... at five a day, probably be very fluid in your approach in two weeks. :)

As you get more courage, that courage will transfer to other areas of your life.

Very best wishes,