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Beasley54 · Jan 7, 2009, 01:03 PM

I'm going to make this short and sweet, I have been friends with a girl who likes me and one of my friends, and I get jealous easy.. she is allways telling me she loves me and what not I don't know if she tells my friend it or not.. I want to talk about this to my friend but I don't want to mess up our friendship.. anyone know what to do? And I'm not sure if this is in the right forum :S.

N0help4u · Jan 7, 2009, 01:15 PM

It depends on if she is your girlfriend or not
If she is just a really good close friend and not considered your girlfriend
You ask your friend something like, 'I know she likes both of us and I was wondering how do you feel about her?' If he says he isn't interested in her then ask what he thinks of you going with her.

Beasley54 · Jan 7, 2009, 01:16 PM

He is just as crazy about her as I am

ja77 · Jan 7, 2009, 01:17 PM

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So we can see if we can help you.

N0help4u · Jan 7, 2009, 01:22 PM

Yeah like is she considered your girlfriend or is she just leading you on at this point?

Beasley54 · Jan 7, 2009, 01:25 PM

Well we are just friends but I don't know if she is leading me on or not she has done it to me before I know that.

ja77 · Jan 7, 2009, 01:28 PM

You need to talk to your friend and speak honest and confront things once and for all.

Just ask them straight what the deal is !

Beasley54 · Jan 7, 2009, 01:30 PM

Allright thank you for the advice ja77..

ja77 · Jan 7, 2009, 01:59 PM

Originally Posted by Beasley54

allright thank you for the advice ja77..

Your welcome :)

Lowtax4eva · Jan 7, 2009, 02:06 PM

You never really said if you are going out on dates with her or you and your friend both just like her... I wouldn't mess up the friendship for this girl.

Talk to your friend and agree that one of you should move on and find someone else. If you both keep seeing her seriously you won't be friends for long.

liz28 · Jan 7, 2009, 03:47 PM

I think you should stay away from this confusion because can only lead to drama.

She likes you and your friend and the both of your like her. Why wait for her to decide who she wants but in the meantime she is giving you false hope by telling you she loves you. This isn't love and if she wanted to be with you she would be with you and you only.

What if she decides to be with you but later on decides to be with your friend. Guess what, your only going lose friends.

So tell her decided that you don't want a relationship with her but will love to be her friend and maybe things could be different in the future. Never wait for someone to decide if they want to be with you or someone else especially when that someone else is your friend. In my book she is playing the both of your and giving the both of your false hope and leading your on. Don't let this continue! Stop the games now.

Btw, how old are everyone involved because this seems so high schoool.

tolerance · Jan 7, 2009, 06:12 PM

Originally Posted by liz28

I think you should stay away from this confusion because can only lead to drama.

She likes you and your friend and the both of your like her. Why wait for her to decide who she wants but in the meantime she is giving you false hope by telling you she loves you. This isn't love and if she wanted to be with you she would be with you and you only.

What if she decides to be with you but later on decides to be with your friend. Guess what, your only going lose friends.

So tell her decided that you don't want a relationship with her but wil love to be her friend and maybe things could be different in the future. Never wait for someone to decide if they want to be with you or someone else especially when that someone else is your friend. In my book she is playing the both of your and giving the both of your false hope and leading your on. Don't let this continue! Stop the games now.

Btw, how old are everyone involved because this seems so high schoool.

Had to spread the rep because I totally agree.