[carol_greiss]

I've been married for 2 years now for my high school sweetheart just 2 years but suddenly everything has changed this is not the guy I used to love this is someone I don't recognize anymore,, this is not the problem the problem is that we've been fighting a lot lately shouting saying horrible things to each other and even hurting each other physically... anyway lately I've been having this strange feeling that I want to commit suicide I started hurting myself but never really could commit suicide because I'm a christian and I'm afraid that it might be a great sin if I do that but I just can't find another way we do not have divorce here in egypt if you are a christian unless u commit adultrey so I just feel stuck in this marriage so suicide seems to be the answer for my problem.. I tried many many times talking and praying but nothing really helps can someone help me if u know some site I can talk to people with the same problem let me know I really don't know what to do... I just wanted to say something today in egypt it's christmas but as u c I'm right here writing this maybe this will give u a hint on my life

[450donn]

Being a christian does not automatically make everything all right in your life. We still have the same problems as the rest of the world. The difference is that we have the King of Kings to go to for help. You are in Egypt, so I am guessing that your christianity is hard on you? Do you have a pastor you can talk to? What are you fighting about? Money? What? Please believe that things can get better, but that you may need some professional help in getting through this attack on your marriage.

[ZoeMarie]

It sounds like professional help is your best bet. You need someone you can talk to about these things so you can get your thoughts in order.

[Cooledit]

Hi, Carol

So I take you're both Christians?

When you have an argument do you both go to bed silent, do you forgive each other before sleeping (I do not mean sex after a fight) cause that is bad for your relationship. Forgive each other before sleeping is always good and sleep in the same bed.

What are you arguing about money, job, kids?
Pray together (get him to read the bible To You) as he is the man of the house it is his responsibility to read the word of our God to you. I hope this will tightening your bonds to each other.

Ask him if he has regretted getting married to you.
Be ready if you don't like the answer.

[Fr_Chuck]

So you separate for a while ( very biblical) and you get counseling to find out what went wrong.

If there is physcial abuse from either or both sides, you need out today, then look at ways to work on relationship.