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texashottie · Dec 30, 2008, 11:25 PM

I had met a guy online and chatted for almost 2 months. We had great conversations. Finally we met 2 nights ago. The chemistry in person was even better than we both had imagined. In fact I have never felt this sort of connection and I am guessing neither has he. Well long story short, we laughed, kissed for hours, and yes, became intimate all night long and the next day. The next afternoon when I left he said call when you get home, he never answered and still has not called. I know it has not been long but I just thought he would have responded by now to my voice mail. This is out of the norm for me, I just felt so comfortable and amazing with him. Hope I didn't mess it up. Do you think he will call? Do you think people can have relationships after being intimate on the first date after connecting online for a cpl months?

Signed, feeling sad and guilty

tickle · Dec 31, 2008, 01:32 AM

Hi, texashottie. Anyone on line can be anything they want to be. It is no different when you meet them in person because the persona, for you, still sticks as 'what you want that person to be'. This guy was a good game player, it seems. He hooked you and got what he wanted. No I don't think you will ever hear from him again. Did you actually find out more about him? He could be married, he could be anything and most of all he could have all the STDs imaginable. I hope it was protected sex and you are safe.

brkfstatiffs · Jan 1, 2009, 08:14 PM

I think if he is truly interested in you, then yes he will call within the week. But, guys can often be put off by girls who show their intimate side right off the bat, because they have nothing to look forward to and it lessens the chase that they enjoy. So it's hard to tell. I know what its like to meet someone and have an amazing connection with right off the bat and from my own experience I think its simple, if he's interested in you as a potential "girlfriend" wants to get to know you better then he will call you within the week most likely. If not, then he was just having fun with the night, and he's an like the rest of them, or for whatever reason didn't feel the click like you did.

I think you have to remember that women get linked to men on an emotional level quicker after just one amazing conversation and a kiss, where guys can rub it off.

If he doesn't cool, just be happy you had a good time and met someone new and move on. Maybe in a couple weeks text him to say how's it going as a casual thing, but after a couple weeks so he knows you moved on from that night. See how he responds.